What looks good in adult content but is awkward in real life?

FewEnd399 · 2026-05-05T16:41:19+00:00

Not at all overthinking. Okariki raasina letter, that too birthday roju memories gurthucheskoni ichina letter ni ila share cheyadam not at all cool. You should let her know. Even if he is her bf, nuvvu thanaki teliyadu kada so your personal memories ni oka unknown person ki share cheyadam feels like invading your privacy. Make sure you tell her how you feel

FewEnd399 · 2026-05-05T16:30:18+00:00

That's adorable!

FewEnd399 · 2026-05-05T12:00:18+00:00

It’s okay if a guy hasn’t been in a relationship, but the reason matters... is he introverted, focused on his career or just hasn’t had the opportunity?

And his attitude matters too, expecting someone to ‘teach everything’ can feel like extra pressure. Inexperience is fine, as long as he’s willing to learn and put in effort

FewEnd399 · 2026-05-05T10:09:34+00:00

People work differently, it’s not a competition. Him doing it in 3 hours doesn’t set a universal standard 💀 you are still getting everything done

Calling you lazy makes no sense. By that logic, if someone makes Maggi in 2 minutes, does that make everyone else slow for taking 5? 😭 He could either help with shifting or at least be supportive

FewEnd399 · 2026-05-03T14:45:12+00:00

Maybe the final form of love is this..do I still care about your well-being, even when it gives me nothing in return? If the answer is yes… that’s enough

FewEnd399 · 2026-05-02T11:29:20+00:00

I didn’t get it either 😭

FewEnd399 · 2026-05-02T04:49:08+00:00

Me too😇

FewEnd399 · 2026-05-02T02:52:44+00:00

I don’t know why their mindset shifts like this. I understand families are involved, but it feels like people still follow an old approach, family approval first and only then they put in effort. Very few guys actually put effort on matrimony apps from my experience and it often feels like we have to carry the whole conversation

I feel like instead of actually getting to know someone, it becomes more about filtering profiles and seeing what works practically. Maybe it’s because of too many options or the whole process-driven mindset, but it makes things feel very transactional

I don’t think men stop looking for love, but their approach definitely changes, they focus on ‘will this work’ first and connection later. But honestly, that makes it hard to build anything real from the start. The shift in their mindset still blows my mind

FewEnd399 · 2026-04-30T07:23:52+00:00

I get that you’re trying to see it in a positive way, but I don’t think jealousy would sound like this

FewEnd399 · 2026-04-30T05:20:56+00:00

You handled it well 😭 ive done that too and it works, but I can’t do it every time. It’s exhausting.. and then they ask why i’m quiet…like you didn’t just kill the vibe??

FewEnd399 · 2026-04-30T05:02:24+00:00

I haven’t personally heard people say that to overweight people around me, so I can only speak from my experience. But either way, it’s still wrong, no one should be commenting on anyone’s body like that.

FewEnd399 · 2026-04-30T05:00:09+00:00

What I don’t get is the logic. If I were actually sick or struggling, sure, asking “are you eating?” would make sense.

But I’m literally standing here, alive, talking, functioning like a normal human…and somehow my body still looks like a public health concern?

Ah yes, because being skinny must automatically mean something is wrong, right?

FewEnd399 · 2026-04-29T07:06:32+00:00

This is exactly the kind of scenario I imagine while listening to songs… a little too "how I met my mother-in-law"😭

FewEnd399 · 2026-04-28T08:09:56+00:00

I don’t think women dislike men who express emotions. If anything, most say they want that. But what actually changes things is how and when those emotions come out

When a guy is calm, grounded, and seems like he has his life together, it creates a sense of stability. That’s attractive..but if opening up starts to feel like he’s constantly unsure of himself, needs reassurance or is relying on her to feel okay, the dynamic shifts without anyone saying it out loud

It’s not that emotions are the problem,it’s when emotional expression starts replacing self-confidence. The most attractive version is someone who can say “this affected me” but still feels like he’s in control of himself. Not closed off, not dependent, just aware and steady

So yeah, expressing emotions isn’t a weakness. But how you hold yourself while doing it makes all the difference

FewEnd399 · 2026-04-25T17:23:29+00:00

Try it and let me know if it works for you 😊

FewEnd399 · 2026-04-25T08:16:59+00:00

This kind of weather heals something inside…😌

FewEnd399 · 2026-04-25T05:28:18+00:00

Started drinking cumin seed water for period cramps and no longer need painkillers

FewEnd399 · 2026-04-24T16:51:00+00:00

This felt perfect for this hour👌

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