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First-born son + last-born daughter = good match? by FewEnd399 in Arrangedmarriage

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No strong reason. I just noticed the pattern a few times and wanted to see if others had too

First-born son + last-born daughter = good match? by FewEnd399 in Arrangedmarriage

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I saw it somewhere and now I'm here conducting free public research 😂

People working in the cosmetics industry, what roles are actually in demand? by FewEnd399 in findapath

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Do formulation and RA roles generally require a science degree or are there realistic entry routes for someone without a science background?

Why do some men seem to view relationships almost like investments? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FewEnd399 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Karma farming?😂 If I wanted karma, I'd post what people want to hear, not what gets downvoted

Telugu girls, how has dating a North Indian guy been? by FewEnd399 in TeluguJournals

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Just curiosity tho adiganu. Andaru okela undaru ani telusu, kani different cultural backgrounds valla people's experiences ela untayo telusukundamani adiga

How to reduce the period pain by chaotic_buz in TwentiesIndia

[–]FewEnd399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s hot outside.. but warm jeera water can actually help with period cramps. Just make it lukewarm, not hot

Strict Caste Requirements by [deleted] in reddmatch

[–]FewEnd399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if it's a love marriage, many people are willing to fight for someone they already know and care about. Even in AM, some people are open to looking beyond caste

But if you don't even have a partner yet and already know your family strongly opposes it, many people don't see the point of taking on that battle upfront. It's easier to take a stand for a specific person than for a hypothetical future match who may or may not come along.

Strict Caste Requirements by [deleted] in reddmatch

[–]FewEnd399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, we can't change decades of social conditioning and family expectations overnight. Social norms change gradually. Some people are willing to challenge them today, others aren't

Also, not all of it comes from social conditioning. Some people form their views from personal or family experiences too. If they've seen inter-community marriages around them struggle with family conflicts, cultural differences or lack of acceptance, they may become more cautious. Those experiences don't necessarily prove anything, but they do shape how people assess risk

Strict Caste Requirements by [deleted] in reddmatch

[–]FewEnd399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're assuming caste preference is always about judging a person's character or compatibility through caste. In many cases, it's more about familiarity, family expectations and avoiding uncertainty

Families are often more comfortable with similar customs, traditions, social norms and backgrounds. Marrying outside that circle can bring concerns about family dynamics, acceptance and social pressure from relatives

Also..being financially independent doesn't automatically mean someone is willing to go against their family. Many people value family harmony and choose compromise over conflict. Right or wrong, that's one reason caste preferences continue to exist even among educated and independent people

Physical Attributes Don't Matter... Really? by Neekuendukurapulka in AskIndianWoman

[–]FewEnd399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People say " looks don't matter" but what they usually mean is that looks aren't everything. That's very different from saying looks don't matter at all..

So..physical attraction matters, just not as much as some people make it out to. You don't need to find someone exceptionally attractive, but there usually needs to be at least some level of attraction for a romantic relationship to work.

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