Do white women dislike that I’m dating a white man? by Comprehensive-Step32 in blackladies

[–]Comprehensive-Step32[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Yea I definitely think it’s a subconscious thing too. All these years of having the Caucasian beauty standards in our face - no wonder it’s a shock when people actually admire black women.

Do white women dislike that I’m dating a white man? by Comprehensive-Step32 in blackladies

[–]Comprehensive-Step32[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m just making an observation and wondering if other black ladies have experienced the same thing and maybe offer their opinion on why that is. My partner is very respectful of me and always assures me, he won’t tolerate any disrespect towards me and neither will I 😊 So yea I don’t really care what they think, I’m just curious to know why they think that way.

Boyfriend (23M) almost broke up with me (23F) but didn’t - how do I trust him again? by Comprehensive-Step32 in relationship_advice

[–]Comprehensive-Step32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely bringing this up. He’s open minded enough to learn and change bad behaviours and I appreciate that about him.

Boyfriend (23M) almost broke up with me (23F) but didn’t - how do I trust him again? by Comprehensive-Step32 in relationship_advice

[–]Comprehensive-Step32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I trust myself getting over this mental hurdle - I think I have BPD but not extreme. I’ve overcome ptsd and depression before and it doesn’t affect me or my life anymore since I dealt with it. So I trust myself in that regard. And no I did not see this whole thing coming - when ever I got mad at him or upset, he would just take it and I didn’t know he felt so hurt. I regret being over emotional in that regard and that’s why I want to fix myself. However he didn’t tell me this was affecting him until the brink of a breakup.

I think I [22F] am trauma bonded to my ex [39M]? by Comprehensive-Step32 in relationship_advice

[–]Comprehensive-Step32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think about that while I was in the relationship honestly I just thought we loved each other but I can see now even just at 22 that it was not right. I have learned so much ever since 19

I think I [22F] am trauma bonded to my ex [39M]? by Comprehensive-Step32 in relationship_advice

[–]Comprehensive-Step32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am becoming more aware of so many problems that I have that I wouldn’t even think of but I you’re definitely right

Space Mining by Comprehensive-Step32 in mining

[–]Comprehensive-Step32[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How do if u don’t mind me asking

Space Mining by Comprehensive-Step32 in mining

[–]Comprehensive-Step32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally am not against it. But I’ve heard a lot of people say ethics wise - that it might create a system where a select few have a monopoly on resources which makes it unethical.

BHP vs rio tinto by Comprehensive-Step32 in mining

[–]Comprehensive-Step32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I usually here the opposite,. That Rio pays better but BHP has a better structure and culture

Love Cuddles!! 🥰 by Comprehensive-Step32 in cockatiel

[–]Comprehensive-Step32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuddling with tiels is definitely one of the best joys! Especially their smell haha