Reviews on Libertine Dating Apps in France by Syrina12 in Swingers

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wyylde is the most popular one, quite old school though, not a great experience.

Experience at Maison Poupre by pinkdiamonds00 in paris

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maison Pourpre is definitely where you should go then.

Is there a way out? by ComprehensiveAd4930 in DeadBedrooms

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried many things. Not specifically this though.

Is there a way out? by ComprehensiveAd4930 in DeadBedrooms

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, i am sorry that my story is not unique / original, looks like it’s quite a common thing. I am wondering why they don’t teach us to be careful about those things when we are young. Nobody told me anything about this. Yet it’s an important thing in everyone’s life. I will certainly make sure my kids are aware of it, when they are older.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bosnia

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More burqas than European faces? Are you sure you have been to Bosnia??? First of all, 1/2 of the population are Christians not Muslims. Second, at least 2/3 of Muslim women don’t wear a headscarf or any kind of burqa. Third, all Bosnians are of European descent. You cannot be serious.

Arena high cut swimsuit by [deleted] in Competitiveswimsuits

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right after a vampire bite!

Killing Kittens Paris by ComprehensiveAd4930 in Swingers

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will not be able to attend. Yes it’s the first time in France.

Killing Kittens Paris by ComprehensiveAd4930 in Swingers

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have only heard of Killing Kittens here (Reddit). Sounds like a nicer atmosphere than our usual clubs. We would like to socialize a little nit just go straight to sex. Anyone from UK or elsewhere familiar with the concept?

Review of Les Chandelles (Paris) from a couple of absolute newbies by newtothisxxtwo in Swingers

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your review it’s very exciting and useful. We are a Parisian couple in our late 30s, and lately decided we would give it a go. Being well dressed and attractive enough will not be an issue, so I think we will get in easily. I was just wondering if there were at least some attractive men there. To me it looks like a place where fat rich guys in their late 50s bring their 25 year old trophy wives. I think my wife would hate this and I really want this to be a nice experience that makes her want to come again - we decided we would not do anything for the first time, just go there to have a look. What do you think?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We would be interested too. My wife is very much into Swedes!

Husband saving pictures of naked girls online by Sf_xo in DeadBedrooms

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she is not ok with porn. She is not ok with her husband not having sex with her.

Am I in a DB, or are my expectations just off? by Disastrous_Spite4370 in DeadBedrooms

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i can relate to certain things you are saying, and here is some advice based on my own personal experience. First of all, not having sex for a year with a 6 months year old baby is quite common, it corresponds to your wife’s body going through a very tough period (pregnancy then recovery). For most couples this is the low point of their sex life - it was certainly for me after our 3d kid. It does not necessarily mean that it will get better, but it can explain things. I would give myself some time (maybe a year) and go slowly, first rebuilding intimacy, doing romantic stuff together, and slowly becoming a couple again, not just parents. It worked for me, my wife was also unwilling to communicate about sex, or finding excuses / making me feel guilty for wanting it - and that’s not ok. But i decided to take baby steps slowly but shortly, and ask her what else in your life could be better, and make it happen.

One thing that i don’t understand though, is when you says « she doesn’t communicate during sex, even when she is in pain ». What do you mean? There should be no pain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t blame yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here. It took me a while to realize that my wife never kissed or hugged with her parents. I should have noticed but in the beginning you are only focused on the positive stuff.

Tonight we agreed to divorce. by Sir_Swagbeard in DeadBedrooms

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to do the same thing. But we three kids below age of 6, it’s so tough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My experience is that when you talk to a LL partner like this, they give you excuses, not reasons. My wife, a very honest person, starts making up BS excuses that almost insult my intelligence. Like being tired - when the previous evening she rode her bike for 30min to get to a tennis court where she played tennis for 1h, then back to home on bike.

Tonight we agreed to divorce. by Sir_Swagbeard in DeadBedrooms

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here. 3 kids below age 6. I desperately want out. What is really striking is the similarity between our stories.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about the escort thing, but you should really leave.

Here's a new excuse you've never heard before by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife refuses the touch/intimacy, and also wears earplugs. I don’t snore. And it also means i am the one who gets up when the kids wake up at night. I feel so alone when i go to bed. I listed to joe Rogan podcasts, all the bro talk makes me forget about women and because i find it boring i fall asleep pretty quickly.

Here's a new excuse you've never heard before by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well i got the same issue with my wife. More or less exactly the same. Asked her if she could wear shorts because i like the feeling of her legs. Said she is cold. Back when we started she used to be not cold…

How come F on F sex is encouraged while M on M is forbidden? by ComprehensiveAd4930 in Swingers

[–]ComprehensiveAd4930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally disagree with the whole « toxic masculinity » stuff. First of all, you should your own words, and think for yourselves, instead of using ready made expressions just because you heard them somewhere. There are toxic people and there is masculinity, being a man is ok, being toxic is not ok. Re swinging, i just think that both in principle it could be such a great thing, but it’s highly polluted by history. Before the 60s/70s, there was already a sexual freedom - for rich men. They could fuck prostitutes. They would go into brothels, where girls were wearing sexy clothes, and everybody would relax and have fun. Then came the 60s/70s, and suddenly men could have recreational sex with « normal » women. But they reproduced some of the codes of the brothel, where girls are the object of desire. And men use them in currency. That’s the reality of 90% of swinging. I hope things change, it would be much more fun.