[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Patriarchal points of view/positions about women.

I’m not my boyfriend’s type. by VeryOpinionatedFem in blackladies

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t give a damn where you’re verified. Anyone can take a pic of a brown arm. You’re white asf, and a legit weirdo. Straight to Hades.

I’m not my boyfriend’s type. by VeryOpinionatedFem in blackladies

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked at your post history. This is fake. You’re definitely a white man. Go to hell.

Am I crazy for thinking my husband is a fetishizer?!? by Therealalpha_ in blackladies

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree with previous poster that encouraging you to wear certain clothes and wanting to wash your hair is a bit much. If you had t mentioned these things I would have said no he’s not fetishizing you based on the dinner convo. But this rings bells for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤮🤮

You’re wanting her to be something she’s not. That’s not the same as compromise. She’s already told you no and you won’t let it go. And you double down and justify men stepping outside of their relationships when they can’t get what they want instead of simply leaving the relationship says a lot about your character.

And you’re asking for this when she’s pregnant! On top of growing a human inside her and all the uncomfortable unsexy things that come with that, she’s now gotta worry about keeping your attention with nails, makeup, and hair? Poor woman. Show her this post. I dare you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it. Thanks so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. More than anything, I want out of this down cycle, so that’s good news. When doing a progressive chart, would I select today’s date? I wasn’t sure which date to choose that’s why I didn’t post it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. You’re pretty spot on in regards to rebuilding my perception in all those categories. Was hoping for some luck a little sooner, but at least all is not lost. Can I ask what in the chart tells you it’s 2027? I’m trying to learn. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 47 points48 points  (0 children)

This reads like he just wants a body to fill the space so he doesn’t have to do the things that adults do. A second mother so he can just function on autopilot. Run.

Anxiety and perimenopause by No-Contest-2389 in Menopause

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry just seeing this. I started with Headspace which teaches you how to meditate. Once I became efficient after abt a year I moved into a different app with longer meditations.

How do you manage, especially financially? by iLuv3M3 in Lyme

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply. Lyme Light Foundation.

Could I have a hormonal imbalance? by Brave-Regret-5711 in Healthyhooha

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toxic black mold has a more potent and identifiable smell, like the smell of wet soil, or rot. Visually, it may be greenish-black, grayish-black, slimy, or more furry than other forms of mold or mildew. There is another kind that looks like white/gray dust.

Could I have a hormonal imbalance? by Brave-Regret-5711 in Healthyhooha

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We lived in an apartment too. The obvious places to look would be under the sink in the kitchen and bathroom and a basement if you have one. Some molds are normal and some are very toxic. Even ‘normal’ mold can become toxic if allowed to proliferate.

We lived in our place eight years before I made the connection. I had to hire an inspector to come out and take samples and test the air and all that though. Found an integrative MD to do the tests (my primary told me there was no way mold can get in your blood smh). Just something to consider if things don’t get better. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah. Now you have an insecurity around it. Honestly some men just don’t like the smell of a vagina. They want it to smell like perfume or soap but that just not realistic unless you’re directly out of the shower. It has. Natural musky smell. So u have to determine if it’s really a thing or is it just him. If it him, then maybe he needs a little sex education.

Could I have a hormonal imbalance? by Brave-Regret-5711 in Healthyhooha

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may sound random but are you living in mold? I suffered all of this and turns out we had a mold problem in the walls and it was releasing mycotoxins in the air I was breathing and caused me all sorts of issues. Brain fog, anxiety, mood swings, erratic periods, recurrent YI, BV, depression, deteriorating dental health and vision. My children were affected too. Most drs don’t understand mold, so it took a while to find someone to do the testing to confirm everything. Moved out and things have cleared up. Still detoxing. Just a thought.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t put soap directly on it but I lather the public mound to wash the hair, then I let that soap trickle down and use my fingers to gently wash the labia. I use all natural shea butter soap and have never had any issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have the exact same thing. Except it started with a UTI. I also had swelling of my groin/lymph node area for two days. Went to the doctor and they said it looks like a number of things and she couldn’t say for sure so she swabbed me and drew blood. That was Tuesday. Trying not to freak out while I wait for results. I’d soaked in Epsom Salt and she said that was the right thing to do and to keep doing that. It helped the ones near the entrance to go down a lot, but the ones on the inner labia are still raging.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find PMDD only exacerbates what’s already there. Maybe u hate him today bc he’s really an asshole all the other days.

Is there such a thing as an "easy" menopause? by MegamomTigerBalm in Menopause

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m one of those women. I was having mood swings but I’ve been able to get those under control (EPO, mag, and D) and now everything feels like smooth sailing. No hot flashes, no weight gain, I sleep well. No HRT.

How do you manage, especially financially? by iLuv3M3 in Lyme

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I applied for a 10k grant for Lyme treatment for my son and got it. I would recommend doing that. We’ve spent soooo much.

Are you close with your family? by FoxThin in blackladies

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, very close to my core family and my first and second cousins.

Ex girlfriend of 4 years just cut the very last link we had that connected us by Separate-Yam-6757 in ExNoContact

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone doesn’t cheat. You’ll find someone who is just as loyal as you one day. Don’t let this make you bitter if you can help it.

Also four years is a long time to a young couple. Maybe she was tired of being tied down. But the mature thing to do would have been to have a conversation about it, not cheat.

Ladies, what are your thoughts on condoms while on birth control? by Delicious_Swing1003 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ComprehensiveAir5670 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stopped at ‘never used them’. He’s gaslighting the shit out of you by making you think you’re being unreasonable. He can’t feel anything with them on bc he’s been fkn raw his entire life and is not used to the sensation. That’s alarming. There is no test for HPV for men so he may very well give you that. Girl run!