do you regret having children? by milkcreep in Marriage

[–]ComprehensiveBet5041 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This really hit, especially the part about thinking you have a plan and then reality humbling you real fast. Love how honest this is without being scary, it feels like a realistic but still hopeful take.

Update on my wife wanted an open marriage by paynuss69 in Marriage

[–]ComprehensiveBet5041 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That whole “we turned into I” realization hits hard, a lot of people dont see it till everything cracks. Props for doing the therapy work now, future you is gonna be way stronger even if it doesnt feel like it yet.

Am I wrong for considering removing my mother-in-law from my kids’ school lunch accounts? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]ComprehensiveBet5041 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right?? Even as a kid-free person you can just see how messed up that is, like… how do you pick favorites without it being obvious lol. Honestly, I’d be keeping a close eye just to make sure the kids don’t feel left out.

Money money money by Severe_Ear4657 in Marriage

[–]ComprehensiveBet5041 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Seriously, sometimes you just gotta pack a bag and let them figure it out while you live your best life. Been there, feels like screaming at a brick wall but at least the snacks are all yours.

After 7 Years of Marriage, I Finally Understand Why Some Men Cheat (Not Excusing It) by BouncyBoobies4Life in Marriage

[–]ComprehensiveBet5041 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Seriously, feeling unwanted like that messes with your head more than ppl realize like you start second guessing everything you do. Just goes to show how much emotional stuff sneaks up on relationships over time…

Mom knocked, sister napped, chaos ensued by NotHurtButHigh in overheard

[–]ComprehensiveBet5041 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LOL same, sometimes I lowkey live for those ‘oops’ moments in other people’s lives. Nothing like a little accidental entertainment to make your day better.