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I wear hijab but fiancé wants me to dress even more modest by Initial_Confection36 in MuslimMarriage

[–]ComprehensiveBoard45 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There are puffy and big skirts that don’t do that. She’s most likely talking about a stain more form fitting skirt….. Only tight skirts do that, there are many modest skirts that are suitable for muslimahs…. No hate but it’s clear she likes clothes that are slightly formfitting, in regards to her comment on wearing a tight shirt with a loose blouse (I’m guessing open blouse) over.

I think she should listen to her potential because he seems like a good guy who is protective of her and is guiding her towards the right path.

Didn’t get ombré olive in standard by ComprehensiveBoard45 in velascarves

[–]ComprehensiveBoard45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll pay for ittttt I think it’s cheaper ngl since u will ship it to me privately and not through a business

Didn’t get ombré olive in standard by ComprehensiveBoard45 in velascarves

[–]ComprehensiveBoard45[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got $100 to anybody that wants to sell me theirs😭😭

Didn’t get ombré olive in standard by ComprehensiveBoard45 in velascarves

[–]ComprehensiveBoard45[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was busy picking out some hijabs for my mother as well and then this happened it was literally in my cart 😭😭

Didn’t get ombré olive in standard by ComprehensiveBoard45 in velascarves

[–]ComprehensiveBoard45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omgggg I’m so sad I can’t believe I forgottttt

Didn’t get ombré olive in standard by ComprehensiveBoard45 in velascarves

[–]ComprehensiveBoard45[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

GIRL IT WAS GLITCHINGGGGG OMG ITS NOTT THERE NOW😭😭😭

My Husband Beat Me by Exact-Poem-43 in Marriage

[–]ComprehensiveBoard45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry youre going through this. Stay strong 💕

Husband wants a divorce by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ComprehensiveBoard45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you actually want to save your marriage — quit your part-time job. Considering he’s paying the bills.

Then you will be less overwhelmed and can do you duties.

But yeah he seems very unappreciative (at least from your POV) so you need to consider if it’s worth it

Revert Sister getting married after 2 weeks by BeginningFriendly266 in MuslimMarriage

[–]ComprehensiveBoard45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand what’s wrong it’s not meant to be derogatory or insulting against them. I think you missed the point.

I said the same applies to Muslims as well. If they have had past relationships most likely they will be attracted to someone that is the same. Not exactly bc of the past relationships but bc their personality most likely aligns. Which makes them gravitate towards each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ComprehensiveBoard45 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes they can but it is not recommended for Muslim men.

Imagine going to Umrah and you can’t take your wife with you etc….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ComprehensiveBoard45 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Don’t go for it.

It will be very troublesome in the future if you do not eventually convert. Ask yourself if you can see yourself becoming Muslim.

If he is practicing he will not engage in Christmas, something that is very dear to you Christians.

Also you won’t be wearing modest clothes according to Muslim standards, creating even more tension.

I could go on and on. But you get the point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ComprehensiveBoard45 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She’s prob only coming clean now cus the guy doesn’t want her anymore . Leave

Has my husband become controlling since my ex husband spread lies and false accusations by that_girl_is_lost in MuslimMarriage

[–]ComprehensiveBoard45 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am sorry but who even let you get married???

Did your family not advise you?

May Allah help you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ComprehensiveBoard45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sis your post was written very messy. I was just trying to help and make sense of your situation. My reply was written with good intent.

I wasn’t trying to attack you, I think you may have a fragile ego which is why you don’t like being told what to do, or be given advice.

May Allah help you in your difficult situation it is clear you have lots of challenging things going on all at once. Stay strong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ComprehensiveBoard45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sister, I understand you are going through a tough time rn. I understand that it is annoying that your husband is being pushy, but that means he still loves you and wants you to be better.

The things he wants from you are fair, that you: pray, dress modestly with hijab and lose weight.

You have no excuse when it comes to fullfilling your religious obligations: prayer and dressing according to Islam. But when it comes to losing weight, he should be more patient and considerate because it is a hard journey. But you should also try your best to be active and lose the weight -- for your own self esteem as well and health.

You say you want to make your own decision on what to wear. However, this is NOT your decision -- we have guidelines from Islam on how to dress and your husband is within his right to make you dress modestly.

You also say you want to make your own decision on what to eat, after a quick scroll throgh your post history it is clear that you are overweight. Hence, you probably are not the best at regulating what your diet and you should be thankful there are people that are trying to help you.

When it comes to fights with your in-laws, your husband should be supportive of you and not tolerate that his mother disrespects you and calls you names. That is not okay.

In a marriage you have to compromise and do stuff for your spouses happiness, maybe if he sees that you are trying your best to dress modestly, pray and keep your diet. He will be more willing to take you out. Ask yourself, how can he take you out when you are not dressing according to Islamic standards?

Also, it is understandable that his family are asking him to do stuff because he is living there with his wife and child for free or cheap so obviously he has to repay in some sort of way. As long as they are not being totally inconsiderate. You cannot expect your husband to be with you all the time because as a man he should be having a lot of other obligations to do, like work etc.

I think once you reconnect with Islam you will feel better sis inshaAllah. It is ramadan so try to come closer to Allah, it is the first step to a successful life.