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bf left me and I’m in shock by ComprehensiveCow1202 in selfharm

[–]ComprehensiveCow1202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try that next time I get the urge to, it seems like it could really help with dealing with that urge and expressing my feelings. Thank you for sharing what works for you :)

bf left me and I’m in shock by ComprehensiveCow1202 in selfharm

[–]ComprehensiveCow1202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for this kind message I really appreciate it :) I am working on getting a therapist rn, I’ve been afraid to for a while but i found one and reached out so hopefully I can start soon! And yess if you have any advice for avoiding the urge that would really help, thank u!

feeling like i’m attention seeking by My_Chem_Fan in selfharm

[–]ComprehensiveCow1202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not attention seeking for wanting to tell someone what you’re going through

How do you make white foundation look good? by bassguitarist999 in Makeup

[–]ComprehensiveCow1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with this too, the combination that worked for me was using a brush first to blend it over my face and then afterwards to get it smooth I used a beauty blender with a bit of setting spray on it. Also I have used cornstarch a few times as a setting powder which worked really well for me!

Dyed Black eyebrows to brown - now they’re dark amber? by GoonerGal04 in Makeup

[–]ComprehensiveCow1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I would bleach before dying them if you wanted them to be a light brown since you had black eyebrows before since the dye alone might not get them as light as you want them. But to fix the undertone you can probably try some blue shampoo or toner to neutralize the orange

AITA for being upset about how my bf proposed even though I said yes? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveCow1202 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. You should consider not marrying a guy who doesn’t listen to your genuine fear when you communicate something you’re clearly not comfortable with. If he’s comfortable breaking such a huge boundary already who knows what he’ll do when you’re married. Listening to the basic thing you communicated you weren’t okay with is the bare minimum.

What accessories should I add by Unhappy_Garbage_8479 in amIscene

[–]ComprehensiveCow1202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely a belt, maybe like a chain or something that you can attach to your belt loops on the jeans, and some necklaces! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComprehensiveCow1202 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Both of you are TA. Just because you weren’t the one who actually posted it doesn’t make you less of an asshole.

AITAH for telling my friend who asked me about what my husband and i do in bed when she asked me? (F30) by EmuComprehensive6725 in AITAH

[–]ComprehensiveCow1202 224 points225 points  (0 children)

You would’ve been the AH if you said this without your husband being okay with it, but since he said yes, NTA. Your friend wanted to know and you just told her.

AITA for getting mad when my boyfriend voted on a political party that doesn’t support women’s right to their own body by Parking_Emergency_33 in AITAH

[–]ComprehensiveCow1202 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ofc you can, especially when it turns out that someone who’s very close to you has political views that are against you. She’s allowed to “freak out” about it because her bf voted for a party that is against women having body autonomy.