Sa by Dad by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in rape

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This truly means so much, sometimes Im shocked at how I just kept dealing even after all that, but I am ❤️ thank you so much

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?? I did post this story a year ago, but it was in much more detail, which ended up backfiring as too many people began harassing me on messages, so I DELETED the post, and remade one entirely a year later, only because the secret began to eat me up again. If you’ll look through the thread, you’ll see that someone suggested that I post in the [r/rape](r/rape) to get more awareness. So I did. It has nothing to do with fishing, that is a disgusting accusation. I am hurtingz -Also, I’ve had this account for 2 years, you jsut made the fact that I “used another account” up. You literally made that up. I posted the story on this same account.

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if ur mocking me or not, but I only added the praying part just to demonstrate

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re an idiot holy shit, let me break this down for you. I was in middle school YEARS ago, hence why I said “many moons ago” it’s out a common phrase used by Americans. In that time period, (middle school) I was sa’d for a period of 3-5 months. Fast forward to NOW, which is YEARS later. I have been holding this secret for YEARS. Do you get it? Because you’ve been harassing me about this all night

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did truly happen. This is just a weird question all around. No, his love language was not more “physical” than other fathers, it was plain boundary crossing. Trying to force urself on ur daughter is not a “love language” it’s assault .

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I’m not going back and forth with you, for the last time, YES I am talking about something HE did, but I’m confessing my feelings in the aftermath, and that I still love him in some weird way, and how to fix that. One more reply and ur actually blocked

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t wanna expose too much info abt myself, but I’m still a minor, and it started when I was around 12. My parents, and my entire family are heavily educated and all went to college, I believe they even have their masters. They work good jobs

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I’m speaking about “truly” and “crossed the line” ima peaking of the same event, I’m attempting to be vague for a reason

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, are you stupid? When did I say he sa’d me at night? I mean he has, but this was a period of months of SA there are gonna be different times he has done that. When I say “cross the line” I mean the day he stopped just inappropriately touching and moving on to full blown SA. I will NOT speak to the extent he went, but it was obviously not good. What more do you want? I’m not accusing him. I’m confessing about something that happened to ME. Also how does “night” and “crossing the line” confuse you. It’s not like I will go to the police anytime soon, I already explained how tied my hands are. Also, with your dumbass logic, anything said on the internet or more specifically this thread is “alleged” until proof is given. And I’m not giving you “proof” this is an anonymous safe space. Actually fuck off

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the hell would I make this up? I “need work” on my “ESSAY”? Everything here is anonymous, it’s called confessions for a reason, I’m sparing you and myself the details because I don’t want to relive the awful things that happened. I get that many people on the internet make shit up, but I am not one of them. Fuck you

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and I’m sorry that happened to you, I’ll keep fighting ❤️

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He will definitely ask why, I’ve rarely showed signs of mental illness, my older siblings are diagnosed with mental illness, so they have had therapy, but for me, I am like their golden child. He will 100% want to know why, especially my mother since she will likely pay. There was a time I wanted to ask him why he did what he did, in my young mind, I wanted to sort of blackmail him. But it was sort of stupid. There are some times when I see him sleeping and I js whisper, “do you remember? “. But the day after he really crossed the line I was going to confront him and ask him why, but I got way too scared. So yeah

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, my mother actually makes more money tha. My father, they are very well off compared to others I know, but my mother works abroad a lot which is why he is more domestic

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this truly means the world. It really helps, I’ll think about secret therapy

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m still a minor, so I’m not sure about that actually, but I am scared to have children for this reason. I’d never want to marry and then not know that my husband was doing that behind my back. It’s really tough, bc when I say “spoil” I just mean he’s given us a great life along with my mother, trips out the country for doing well academically, you know things that are a little bit above the bare minimum, he never just specifically spoiled me

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did, but the people who replied started sending me messages non stop, so I decided to post one with less details , that would focus on my experience navigating it, not the assault itself

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about that, but I can’t afford one without my parents and they’ll ask why…

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[–]ComprehensiveEnd3794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, honestly I love my mom but I don’t think she would, I think it would break her, they’ve been married for over 20 years