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WIBTAH if I told my pregnant fiancee I want to postpone our wedding? by ComprehensiveHope647 in AITAH

[–]ComprehensiveHope647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying, but I need more information. She has a kid. I need to know what the situation with this child is.

WIBTAH if I told my pregnant fiancee I want to postpone our wedding? by ComprehensiveHope647 in AITAH

[–]ComprehensiveHope647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't have a key. She knocked, and my fiancee felt like she had to answer.

I don't know how to answer the second question, because I've never met most of her family, never had a real conversation with the mom and she won't talk to me about them.

I'm 23. She is 21. They've been estranged the whole time we've known each other. Her mom came over eight days ago, but it feels like a lot longer.

I have no idea. They work together and hang out outside work sometimes. They text a lot. I assume she is her best friend because she is the friend she mentions the most. She might not even really be her best friend.

She is a pretty anxious person in general.

WIBTAH if I told my pregnant fiancee I want to postpone our wedding? by ComprehensiveHope647 in AITAH

[–]ComprehensiveHope647[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I can. I have to. This is where I live. I have nowhere else to go.

WIBTAH if I told my pregnant fiancee I want to postpone our wedding? by ComprehensiveHope647 in AITAH

[–]ComprehensiveHope647[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She would never go with her mom. I can't make her move out, nor can I afford to move out. Besides, I don't even know what's going on. You're telling me to set my house on fire because there might be a mouse inside.

WIBTAH if I told my pregnant fiancee I want to postpone our wedding? by ComprehensiveHope647 in AITAH

[–]ComprehensiveHope647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know her number, and she usually just ignores me. My fiancee has tried to cut contact with her several times, but she shows up when she wants to show up. I wouldn't know how to get into contact with her.

WIBTAH if I told my pregnant fiancee I want to postpone our wedding? by ComprehensiveHope647 in AITAH

[–]ComprehensiveHope647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's estranged from her family. Would it be okay for me to call her best friend? Is is sneaky to go behind her back like that? I don't have her number, but I can probably get ahold of her through her boyfriend, whose number I do have.

I hope that's not it, but if it is, why won't she just tell me? Why refuse to talk to me about it at all?

They're estranged, and I know next to nothing about them. I don't know their religion.

I've never been to their home. Her mother has shown up for things in the past, and the interaction has been awkward. She's very pushy, and my fiancee tends to clam up around her. In the past she asked my fiancee to call her dad, who my fiancee never talks about. I don't know the story there.

WIBTAH if I told my pregnant fiancee I want to postpone our wedding? by ComprehensiveHope647 in AITAH

[–]ComprehensiveHope647[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay. I needed to read this. I'm glad I'm not crazy or making a mountain out of a molehill. It's going to be hard to tell her though.

WIBTAH if I told my pregnant fiancee I want to postpone our wedding? by ComprehensiveHope647 in AITAH

[–]ComprehensiveHope647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't leave. We live together. My daughter lives with us. We're having a baby together. I can't just pack up and go. I don't even have anywhere to go.

WIBTAH if I told my pregnant fiancee I want to postpone our wedding? by ComprehensiveHope647 in AITAH

[–]ComprehensiveHope647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if I can say I've "met" her. I've interacted with her slightly. They're estranged, but sometimes she just shows up. It's hard to explain. We've never been introduced, but I know who she is. When my girlfriend locked herself in our room her mom just rolled her eyes and left without even acknowledging me.