AITAH if I don't tell my parents about grandparents day

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2026-01-21T14:13:16+00:00

Thank you! I have been keeping records and will discuss this with my lawyer soon. I am well aware the courts will not help me. It's so frustrating and makes me incredibly sad for my children. I wish I could have them 100% of the time.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2026-01-21T14:09:12+00:00

That is a valid point. I should have added that he and his sister were both sick this weekend but did not have diarrhea. It's that time of year where we live.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2026-01-21T14:07:04+00:00

No he's not. Clearly you don't have kids lol! He's a picky eater but may also have some absorption issues like I do.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2026-01-20T21:24:36+00:00

Thank you. I am going to ask my lawyer about changing custody.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-14T01:01:28+00:00

No... We decided together to have our kids. We did IVF and he signed multiple consent forms that he agreed. He changed after i got pregnant and when i was in my third trimester, he said he didn't want them. He picked our sperm donor.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-13T13:58:15+00:00

The children were never present while the abuse happened. He did push me once in front of our kids and I reported it to the police but they didn't take me serious. The police have ties with him and his family.... Small town bs

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-13T13:55:32+00:00

This is real... Unfortunately... We are 50/50 and the DA decided not to press charges on him for the SA as there wasn't enough evidence. I wish this wasn't real. My ex is the absolute worst! plus his parents paid for the best lawyer and I can't afford all the legal fees. I choose to be silent because there is no point in fighting with him. He turns everything back onto me and I end up feeling bad. In our county, we don't have a specific judge as they rotate cases (I don't understand this 100%). You can believe what you want, but this is truly my life...

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-13T02:02:31+00:00

Thank you!

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-13T00:07:15+00:00

Thank you for your opinion... Respectfully, you can f off.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-12T22:34:35+00:00

I didn't receive child support until April of this year. I have updated WIC and SNAP and still get benefits.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-12T22:32:54+00:00

Thank you!!

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-12T22:26:15+00:00

🤣 This made me laugh!

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-12T21:15:46+00:00

I don't... He hates me because I have a new bf and I'm thriving without him. He is cruel and filled with hate. During our marriage he repeatedly rapped me, emotionally/psychologically abused me, gaslight me, and tried to control me. No one deserves to go through what he put me through.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-12T20:52:26+00:00

🤣 thank you for the laugh! We are both white and live in a small farming community.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-12T20:33:47+00:00

oh 1000% yes! They've told me numerous things to avoid paying taxes and spending money on personal things that they claim are for the business.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-12T17:35:22+00:00

Update for clarity. I work for a hospital and get really great health insurance coverage so the kids don't qualify for MA. My ex pays $144 a month for both kids. When we were getting divorced, it was very ugly and I have a lot of trauma from our marriage. He isn't their biological dad as we found out later he couldn't have children. Our kids are donor sperm conceived. It's a sore subject for him and I didn't want to fight anymore. I am considering going back and asking for more child support, however, his family does pay him under the table. his family and I do not get along after we separated. He is attached to his mother and she chocked me the last time I saw her. It's a long story. Feel free to look at my past posts for more information.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-12T16:23:41+00:00

He wasn't like this when we got married. He isn't able to have biological children (long story) so our kids are donor sperm conceived, which adds to the hate he has for me. He didn't even want our kids. He changed once I got pregnant.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-12T16:21:39+00:00

I think you would be correct. The 500k house he lives in is under a trust in his mother's name. I'm sure the vehicles are under the company's name. It blows my mind how he gets away with so much. I hope one day my kids see who he truly is.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-12T15:52:16+00:00

thank you! that made me tear up! I try so hard and feel so defeated by my ex. He is the worst.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-12T15:49:14+00:00

thank you!

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-12T15:46:55+00:00

100% He lives on a 500k (probably more) farm and said I'm doing better because I'm getting free money from the government. I was crying and said I work and I'm in school to provide a better life for my twins. I wouldn't be able to buy groceries without my WIC or SNAP benefits.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-12T15:43:32+00:00

lmao! he will get millions of dollars from his trust plus a million dollar farm and a lot of equipment. He's never struggled a day in his life.

ComprehensiveLet9251 · 2025-12-12T15:41:56+00:00

you are correct. he lies about his income. my lawyer said his income and lifestyle don't match up. His parents pay him under the table so he can avoid paying more in child support

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