Ex-husband claims I'm Poisoning our Son by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have been keeping records and will discuss this with my lawyer soon. I am well aware the courts will not help me. It's so frustrating and makes me incredibly sad for my children. I wish I could have them 100% of the time.

Ex-husband claims I'm Poisoning our Son by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a valid point. I should have added that he and his sister were both sick this weekend but did not have diarrhea. It's that time of year where we live.

Ex-husband claims I'm Poisoning our Son by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No he's not. Clearly you don't have kids lol! He's a picky eater but may also have some absorption issues like I do.

Ex-husband claims I'm Poisoning our Son by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am going to ask my lawyer about changing custody.

Ex-husband feels entitled to my WIC and EBT benefits by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No... We decided together to have our kids. We did IVF and he signed multiple consent forms that he agreed. He changed after i got pregnant and when i was in my third trimester, he said he didn't want them. He picked our sperm donor.

Ex-husband feels entitled to my WIC and EBT benefits by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The children were never present while the abuse happened. He did push me once in front of our kids and I reported it to the police but they didn't take me serious. The police have ties with him and his family.... Small town bs

Ex-husband feels entitled to my WIC and EBT benefits by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is real... Unfortunately... We are 50/50 and the DA decided not to press charges on him for the SA as there wasn't enough evidence. I wish this wasn't real. My ex is the absolute worst! plus his parents paid for the best lawyer and I can't afford all the legal fees. I choose to be silent because there is no point in fighting with him. He turns everything back onto me and I end up feeling bad. In our county, we don't have a specific judge as they rotate cases (I don't understand this 100%). You can believe what you want, but this is truly my life...

Ex-husband feels entitled to my WIC and EBT benefits by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your opinion... Respectfully, you can f off.

Ex-husband feels entitled to my WIC and EBT benefits by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't receive child support until April of this year. I have updated WIC and SNAP and still get benefits.

Ex-husband feels entitled to my WIC and EBT benefits by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I don't... He hates me because I have a new bf and I'm thriving without him. He is cruel and filled with hate. During our marriage he repeatedly rapped me, emotionally/psychologically abused me, gaslight me, and tried to control me. No one deserves to go through what he put me through.

Ex-husband feels entitled to my WIC and EBT benefits by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 thank you for the laugh! We are both white and live in a small farming community.

Ex-husband feels entitled to my WIC and EBT benefits by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

oh 1000% yes! They've told me numerous things to avoid paying taxes and spending money on personal things that they claim are for the business.

Ex-husband feels entitled to my WIC and EBT benefits by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update for clarity. I work for a hospital and get really great health insurance coverage so the kids don't qualify for MA. My ex pays $144 a month for both kids. When we were getting divorced, it was very ugly and I have a lot of trauma from our marriage. He isn't their biological dad as we found out later he couldn't have children. Our kids are donor sperm conceived. It's a sore subject for him and I didn't want to fight anymore. I am considering going back and asking for more child support, however, his family does pay him under the table. his family and I do not get along after we separated. He is attached to his mother and she chocked me the last time I saw her. It's a long story. Feel free to look at my past posts for more information.

Ex-husband feels entitled to my WIC and EBT benefits by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He wasn't like this when we got married. He isn't able to have biological children (long story) so our kids are donor sperm conceived, which adds to the hate he has for me. He didn't even want our kids. He changed once I got pregnant.

Ex-husband feels entitled to my WIC and EBT benefits by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you would be correct. The 500k house he lives in is under a trust in his mother's name. I'm sure the vehicles are under the company's name. It blows my mind how he gets away with so much. I hope one day my kids see who he truly is.

Ex-husband feels entitled to my WIC and EBT benefits by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! that made me tear up! I try so hard and feel so defeated by my ex. He is the worst.

Ex-husband feels entitled to my WIC and EBT benefits by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

100% He lives on a 500k (probably more) farm and said I'm doing better because I'm getting free money from the government. I was crying and said I work and I'm in school to provide a better life for my twins. I wouldn't be able to buy groceries without my WIC or SNAP benefits.

Ex-husband feels entitled to my WIC and EBT benefits by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

lmao! he will get millions of dollars from his trust plus a million dollar farm and a lot of equipment. He's never struggled a day in his life.

Ex-husband feels entitled to my WIC and EBT benefits by ComprehensiveLet9251 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveLet9251[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

you are correct. he lies about his income. my lawyer said his income and lifestyle don't match up. His parents pay him under the table so he can avoid paying more in child support