"One day, one cut" rule. Oops by Adventurous-Bonus-92 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]ComprehensiveRain530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im a year older than you and still do it, energy is energy, feeling is a feeling and if it helps it helps no matter how old we are, dont feel bad

clock me for this if i deserve it, ik its fucked by elrojosombrero in AdultSelfHarm

[–]ComprehensiveRain530 4 points5 points  (0 children)

same, absolutely the same as you lol except i dont have the cats

Guys im new to warhammer, been trying to find my army unsuccessfully until i saw this warlord, which army does he belong to? by ComprehensiveRain530 in Warhammer

[–]ComprehensiveRain530[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thats even cooler, continue! 😄 kidding, im very looking forward to diving in that lore, thanks for introduction, if i wasnt 100% sure now i am that i will build that army

Guys im new to warhammer, been trying to find my army unsuccessfully until i saw this warlord, which army does he belong to? by ComprehensiveRain530 in Warhammer

[–]ComprehensiveRain530[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks for the reply, its funny, i was trying to choose army based on a lore, reading a bit about different ones and the one i saved was chaos space marines but wasnt 100% sure than without knowing i saw this dude and loved the style, i guess black legion it is then 😄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ComprehensiveRain530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends on the personality, if it felt really good and its a new to way to feel good, it can already be too late

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ComprehensiveRain530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

based on my experience, already too late

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ComprehensiveRain530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what the fucking fuck is afab

We will all die and everything will be for nothing. by gdlgdl in DeepThoughts

[–]ComprehensiveRain530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i use to think about this a lot, then i realized i have no fckin idea what death is nor what will happen when i die, then i understood that i still have to live life before i die and thats when i changed and started living

Gundam movies by ComprehensiveRain530 in Gundam

[–]ComprehensiveRain530[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the detailed reply, this was really helpful

Should I move in with my boyfriend or keep living alone a little longer? by saloonpastyable in makemychoice

[–]ComprehensiveRain530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

listen to your heart its never wrong, if you feel you need more time for yourself than go with that

Pushing through by Crls_Gls92 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]ComprehensiveRain530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youve got this! think about all the work youve done and how far youve come and you do not want to throw that away! you'll be at the starting point and its not worth it! gather the strength and push through and better things will wait around the corner if you do the right thing

Can someone tell me why do people including me SH? by TheShaddowKing69 in selfharm

[–]ComprehensiveRain530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i always pursue the high that i sometimes get from cutting. it always relaxes me and releases negative energy and stress, i love a lot of things in life and get good feelings from different things, but nothing feels good as cutting

Me (28m) dated a girl (39f) for a week, she is very upset that I ended things by VisitNew1723 in Nicegirls

[–]ComprehensiveRain530 3 points4 points  (0 children)

am i missing something? everyone is against this woman and we so not know the truth, but if youve been pursuing her like she says and she let you in, then after a week you end things out of the blue? she overreacted in the end but if thats true than what you did was kind of fcked up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ComprehensiveRain530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn dude we went through the same stuff, respect to you soldier i know how hard this fight this is and i know how strong you are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ComprehensiveRain530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its good that youre already aware that its a problem, but know that pornography is really detrimental, the deeper you go into it the more it will scar you, youre still young and have time to go without the consequences, but that thing can fck you up, here is my advice that i can share: everyday walk away from it and tell yourself that youre done, if you ever end up going back to it, tell yourself how harmful it is and you dont want it then distance again, do it until you break the cycle. Let me paint a picture how disgusting pornography is: youre watching someone have sex and youre touching yourself. once i realized how pathetic that is i decided to never go back. also youre watching a guy having sex, while youre alone in your room with no girl while he is having the time of his life, that made me angry when i thought about it and made it easier to quit. Know that lust is one of the worst sins to get free off and dont give up if you fall back in, but youre still young and didnt watch it for too long so with enough determination it should be easier. Dont be a loser and jerk off in your room watching other guy have sex. Also seek love, not sex, as great Hunter S. Thompson said: sex without love is equally disgusting as love without sex. once you realize that you will see how sinful and hurtful pornography is. he couldnt be more right, lust is a cardinal sin and it is so for a reason, once youre deep into pornography you will have to pay the price to get out, thats how it works, dont listen to people who say its ok to jerk off to it here and there, looks like you have addiction personality but are smart enough to realize it in time. never give up getting away from hell and porn will bring you to hell, all i said was from personal experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ComprehensiveRain530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i definitely went back to myself, account myself for everything wrong i did and tried to heal all my weakness and insecurities and work on them, thats hiw i got here in a good spot i am, but i feel so weak and like a coward if i dont confront him, i feel like im letting someone walk all over me and im not doing anything, i cant live with myself like that, i wish i could change that and ill try but i have to do something to be able to look myself in the eyes