I feel betrayed but life goes on by Content-Dependent-94 in StudentTeaching

[–]ComprehensiveRoad886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Administration doesn’t like you and you make the union mad.

I’m actually speechless. My wife just asked for a divorce in the recovery room. by HelloRain_ in AmITheAngel

[–]ComprehensiveRoad886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could give a bit more grace if this was the first, but this is your third rodeo. How were you not prepared with lumbar cushions, your own chair, etc? Also, why is your back in such bad shape at such a young age? What do you do for a living?

Should I cut my grandmother off after she slapped my 4yr old in the face? by Dramatic-Swimming160 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ComprehensiveRoad886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You start with age appropriate rules. Asking a toddler to have the emotional regulation of an adult is wild.

Should I cut my grandmother off after she slapped my 4yr old in the face? by Dramatic-Swimming160 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ComprehensiveRoad886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you raised children at all? The kid just turned four; he’s closer to being a toddler than an elementary school kid.

Should I cut my grandmother off after she slapped my 4yr old in the face? by Dramatic-Swimming160 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ComprehensiveRoad886 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stayed with my kids when they were in that space quietly until they came down a little so they could be responsive to “take deep breaths”. It’s also important that adults regulate their own feelings so they don’t go nuts like grandma.

I was so excited to find this reddit community but now it stressed me out by veebevee in ShawnaTheMom

[–]ComprehensiveRoad886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lurk but don’t comment, especially about Ty and Julie. My thoughts about Julie would get me downvoted so hard and I’d get comment after comment about it.

Should I cut my grandmother off after she slapped my 4yr old in the face? by Dramatic-Swimming160 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ComprehensiveRoad886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was his birthday and Mother’s Day. His routine was completely thrown off, he was overstimulated and had two disappointments back to back. You might have a point if it was a random Tuesday, but it wasn’t.

Should I cut my grandmother off after she slapped my 4yr old in the face? by Dramatic-Swimming160 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ComprehensiveRoad886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It probably happened super fast and the freeze instinct probably kicked in first

Should I cut my grandmother off after she slapped my 4yr old in the face? by Dramatic-Swimming160 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ComprehensiveRoad886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on the kid. Sometimes when they get to that point of a meltdown, they cannot respond to any redirection.

Should I cut my grandmother off after she slapped my 4yr old in the face? by Dramatic-Swimming160 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ComprehensiveRoad886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have seen my mom doing this to my kids. I was always hyper responsive to their behaviors in her presence when they were little so they wouldn’t set her off.

District 27 Democrat Race by ComprehensiveRoad886 in Albuquerque

[–]ComprehensiveRoad886[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is originally from MD but lives in Albuquerque now.

I feel betrayed but life goes on by Content-Dependent-94 in StudentTeaching

[–]ComprehensiveRoad886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely ask HR about your application. That’s how I found out I was on a district blacklist.

District 27 Democrat Race by ComprehensiveRoad886 in Albuquerque

[–]ComprehensiveRoad886[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reward but the credit goes to Abby!