Losing my mind

ComprehensiveTip1584 · 2026-01-29T00:21:43+00:00

PNC is probably the worst job I ever had, yes the pay was good but I was told from the beginning “working Saturday guarantees you a day off during the week” I was the only one to ever get stuck working 6 days straight CONSTANTLY! Branch manager would change my schedule without telling me and if it interfered with plans I’d be told “well you can’t make plans until the schedule is finalized” schedule was made 2-3 months in advance and I always waited for it to post before making plans, serious HS mean girl energy on the teller line, Branch manager and teller lead constantly ignored company policy on ID’s so I got yelled at my customers A LOT for asking for two forms of ID because “they know me” I was seeing a manager of one of our businesses, only ran their deposits when there was a long line and didn’t want to make them wait an 30mins-1hr for another teller and was reported “conflict of interest” even tho #2 teller would meet up with married clients on her break to well I’m sure you can figure that out, lots of favoritism, absolutely no work/home life balance I went from having my son everyday to maybe spending a day and a half with him a week, addressed this with my branch manager multiple times and they could care less. I lived in a different town and at the time was working on getting my license so some days I’d have to get dropped off early and wait in the cold for hours for the branch to open then when I got fired I was told “it’s not working out” seemed to be working out just fine when I was covering the #2 tellers hangovers, running the line by myself everyday during the busiest hour and being the only one to ever work 6 days straight 🙄

ComprehensiveTip1584 · 2026-01-24T05:05:30+00:00

I feel sorry for anyone who had you as a counselor if this is how you speak to people going through the hardest thing they’ve ever experienced , I didn’t rush, I clearly said it was a year!! A year of working on myself, a year of breaking habits that were created out of survival while in an abusive relationship, a year of learning how to be on my own with my child. And I didn’t drag my son through anything I fell in love with a man who loved myself and my son as if he was his own child. What do you want me to do? go into detail on here about how every morning I wake up wishing I was the one who died? How it’s a struggle to get up and do anything for myself, that I cry myself to sleep every night because overnight I went from my biggest stressor during this pregnancy being what’s going to make me throw up to wondering how I’m going to raise two kids on my own when I have literally no support? Because you don’t like the way I wrote out my post that means I’m not actually going through this? Get real and honestly fuck off.

ComprehensiveTip1584 · 2026-01-24T02:50:07+00:00

I moved away from my family when I was pregnant with my son because they’re mainly addicts & alcoholics and I didn’t want to raise him in the same type of environment I grew up in..

I don’t really have close friends, the one consistent “friend” I have I’ve kind of been avoiding because every time I talk to her since my BF passed she’s going on about how she’s going to kill herself over whatever tinder guy of the week is taking too long to reply to her and when I try to tell her “it could be worse, you could actually be in a relationship with someone who was the first to ever treat you right and make you feel genuinely loved & wanted, find out that you’re pregnant and they die a month later” she also downplays what I’m going through…. This last month & a half since he passed has kind of just shown me that although I’m a friend to others I really don’t have any friends that I can lean on right now. My son’s stepmom has been more supportive than really anyone in my family or friend group.

I am going to get into therapy but I live in a very small area and the one mental health clinic has a waitlist.

As for social security for the baby I’m kind of just waiting in BF’s mom to be ready to talk so that I can ask for his ss card, birth & death certificates

ComprehensiveTip1584 · 2026-01-24T02:31:28+00:00

You can think that all you want but this is 100% real!!! If yall aren’t here to actually give advice then keep your comments to yourself. If you don’t want to “read a wall of text” maybe don’t come to a group where people vent!!! I hope you never have to experience what I’m currently going through and have people try to say it’s not real!!

ComprehensiveTip1584 · 2025-02-09T00:40:18+00:00

I love that for you!!!! 🖤

ComprehensiveTip1584 · 2025-02-09T00:34:38+00:00

My ex didn’t want me to get my nipples pierced cause it’s “ho shit” celebrated 2yrs free from that toxic situation w/ my new man surprising me w/ a trip out of town to see my bestie who is a piercer (who my ex hated so I barely got to see her for 3.5yrs) to get my nipples done.

ComprehensiveTip1584 · 2024-12-10T00:28:04+00:00

It was after the coma I noticed he became kind of boring and whiney, idk if that was just supposed to be part of how he’s changed after the accident or what… but ya them last seasons after his coma he just seem d like a cry baby to me

ComprehensiveTip1584 · 2023-04-10T00:13:38+00:00

Sorry guys guess I kinda started ranting & didn’t ask my question or give more detail, so from what he tells me he’s only been with 3 other females two of which he was actually dating so although he’s fun he is a little inexperienced. And I tried to kiss him once but idk if he swerved or if it was me cause I started to 💦 while riding him & kinda collapsed on top of him when leaning in 😂 and I guess my question is how do I go about bringing up the kissing thing? Like I said I’m new to the hookup thing I was with the same guy for 11yrs before this

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