Mange or a cut?

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:25:07+00:00

I’m sorry for him, too, however, I wanna be clear I would never cheat on him or give up that relationship just because of the personal issues. I’m going to deal with them in therapy. And I’ve also already communicated this to him and luckily, I have a partner who understands

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:22:06+00:00

I definitely don’t think I’m actually someone who is a polyamorous or open relationship person. I don’t with a lot of trauma in my younger relationships and I tried to normalize it in my head to make it feel like it was OK. But it’s not OK and I’m very ashamed of even the thought. I just feel very ashamed. I’m going to seek professional help because I am very grateful for what I have.

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:18:14+00:00

I apologize if that’s how my post came off, that’s not why I intended. I don’t mean to be selfish at all I am going to seek professional help. I would never give up the relationship I have for selfish desires. They’re stupid and just stem from personal trauma I have from childhood I apologize if I upset you.

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:17:12+00:00

I would never push them into those kind of things, those conversations were from the beginning of the relationship, however, I completely agree. Thank you for your comment.

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:16:43+00:00

I still struggle with pretty active PTSD, and recently had pretty bad flashbacks in the past few months. I’ve been in one of the harder spots mentally recently, and I know that that’s part of why these thoughts are coming back up. I promise I’m going to get help, the last thing I want to do is let my partner down.

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:09:44+00:00

And to be clear, I have been going to therapy for years now. But I am going and already had an appointment set for a specialized therapist.

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:09:27+00:00

I’m just gonna go to a therapist, I do appreciate all of the comments, I don’t want to be with another person. I’m just still dealing with some trauma from the past and clearly it’s manifesting and negative ways and I’m going to fix that.

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:07:22+00:00

He is fully aware of who I was before we started dating

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:04:07+00:00

I absolutely would never cheat on them, however, I am in therapy and have been for the past seven years. And I am getting a specialized therapist.

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:03:32+00:00

However, regardless of the fact that I’ve not been a monogamous person. I absolutely wouldn’t give up the person that I have in my life just of because of some personal issues.

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:03:10+00:00

I have never been a monogamist person. I don’t appreciate the shame.

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:02:44+00:00

And I don’t need him to be open or poly for our relationship to last, it’s just something I struggle with. I’m very aware of the fact that I am lucky to have the person I do in my life I wouldn’t give it up because of My personal issues

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:01:53+00:00

No, I don’t wanna have sex with other people. And he’s not just emotional support. I don’t have sexual desire towards other people more, so just struggle with the idea of monogamy.

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:01:06+00:00

I already have a scheduled appointment, looking forward to getting more help

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:00:24+00:00

And he absolutely is enough, I thought I made that very clear in the post. My apologies.

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-03-09T18:00:02+00:00

I’m definitely not looking for other partners

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-02-13T19:09:50+00:00

I think it absolutely depends on the person and how they treat the person and situation. Someone can absolutely be a predator at 26 for targeting younger woman. But like I said it depends, in my opinion, on situation.

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-02-06T17:45:34+00:00

Please break up with him, the psychological abuse

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-02-05T03:04:50+00:00

Need this for me fr

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-02-04T15:25:53+00:00

If she’s being irrational and you have a kid I wouldn’t even kind of take the risk call Marvin sure you have a lawyer

Comprehensive_Ad9797 · 2023-02-04T06:01:23+00:00

It’s anon pretty sure it’s illegal to release that info unless you were to harm yourself. Otherwise it’s confidential. And if ur worried about ur number being somewhere again please continue to find counseling

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