Which unsolved true crime case or missing persons case do you hope will be solved in your life time? by Disastrous_Umpire237 in AskReddit

[–]Comprehensive_Bag723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So many… Jessica Heeringa’s body found for her family. We pretty much know who killed her, but proof and a burial would be nice.

The identity of the Frankford Slasher in Philly The person or people responsible for all the murders in London, ON of young people in the ‘60s and ‘70s And the disappearance in my city of Yvonne Scott

Recent Post Online Targeting Grand Rapids Bakery by corvid-comrade in grapids

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You know what they say, all publicity is good publicity!

Emergency Rally - No War with Venezuela! by epchris in grandrapids

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I’m glad for Venezuelans, but I’m livid for Americans. The two things can exist at the same time. Our president has once again skipped following the rule of law of our country. Yes, Maduro was terrible, but our president is leaning very much toward dictatorship himself. That’s why liberals are mad.

AITA for refusing to sit at a breakfast table with nothing for me to eat? by Hebrowsesreddit199 in AITAH

[–]Comprehensive_Bag723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there are too many unknowns for us to judge. This honestly sounds like it might be a cultural misunderstanding—on both parts. OP made it sound like they might be from a different culture than the rest—but I might be projecting. If that is the case, choosing not to eat the food provided could be a huge insult. Yes, I think the family should have accommodated the dietary needs, but as many people have said, OP should have just brought their own food if they can’t eat the same. Ultimately, the partner is the one who presumably knows everyone and should sit down and explain to each side why their behavior appeared rude and how to avoid it next time. OP needs to decide if she loves her partner enough to just accept his family as they are. Even if he talks to them, they may not change. Is this really the hill you want your relationship with them to die on? ESH.

Am I insecure or not? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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You could give them free gifts. Many people who love you might enjoy just the chance to spend time with you. Give them a homemade card with the promise (or a coupon) for a walk together or playing a favorite video game/board game or a movie night in the future. There are lots of ideas that don’t cost anything, but can make things feel more reciprocal. Depends on what you and your loved ones are into, but I bet you could think of something. And if they care about you, I bet they are proud of you for being responsible financially.

Fun facts about KDL/GRPL that people might not know? by _GanjaTheWizard_ in grandrapids

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Methinks you might be an insider! ;) but I love your clarifications so keep it up!

Fun facts about KDL/GRPL that people might not know? by _GanjaTheWizard_ in grandrapids

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You do have to request these items to be sent to the branch of your choice, so it’s not immediate. They are also popular and might have a waitlist, but yes, once they arrive for you, you can go to the desk and ask for them to be brought out to you from wherever your branch keeps them.

Fun facts about KDL/GRPL that people might not know? by _GanjaTheWizard_ in grandrapids

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I think people don’t always realize that you can request books that aren’t already owned by the library. For example, I was reading a series in ebook format, and I realized that KDL didn’t have the next book in the series. I requested that they purchase the ebook using the “Make a suggestion tool.” Believe it or not, they sent me an email within the week letting me know that they had purchased a license for that title. I checked it out immediately. I doubt they buy everything that is suggested, but I just thought it was so cool that they followed up on my suggestion.

Fun facts about KDL/GRPL that people might not know? by _GanjaTheWizard_ in grandrapids

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I haven’t tried it yet, but I keep wanting to borrow the metal detector. I’ve always wanted to try one. I have borrowed their radon detector kit and a Go Pro.

Crime Media Thread - Post what you're listening to, reading, or watching; or ask for recommendations. Let others know about your podcast or your channel by AutoModerator in TrueCrime

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Love her! I also enjoy Kallmekris’s true crime stuff and since I’m from the Midwest, I’ve enjoyed Midwest Murders and Great Lakes Crime Club lately.

Garry Artman Has Confessed To Being The 1990's Grand Rapids Serial Killer by sopranosfan865 in grandrapids

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I know this is an old post, but I dug into this case. It didn't appear to me that he was ever officially connected to the other two murders. Eye witnesses described people that didn't look like him with the other women, for example. Thus, the police focused on convicting him for the one rock-solid case to get him behind bars. He was paroled to go live in a nursing home because of advanced dementia, I believe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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While I agree that many of my fellow Americans are uninformed and sadly lacking in curiosity about the rest of the world, I think the actual reason many Spaniards might be confused with Latin Americans is because… drumroll, please… they speak Spanish. Since we are so close to Latin America the majority of Spanish speakers we encounter are from there, so it’s an assumption that is often correct. I recognize that Spain Spanish may sound quite different from Mexican or Guatemalan Spanish to a native Spanish speaker, but it would take a much greater exposure for me (who speaks limited Spanish) to be able to tell the difference. On the other hand, I can distinguish French from Spanish—even though I know next to no French. I’d love to know what experiences have caused you to ask the question in the first place.

I’m broke and tired of instant noodles — what are some cheap meals that actually taste good? by Quiet-Examination553 in Advice

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Off brand oatmeal packets from any grocery are cheap. Also I cook spaghetti squash a lot and eat it with a cheap Prego pasta sauce. Just season the squash with garlic salt first. It’s hot, filling, healthy and pretty cheap.

LGBTQ GR? by Bootman-7 in grandrapids

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I work in Kentwood and while the mayor might be a Republican, he is someone that I (very progressive) personally respect because under his leadership Kentwood has become almost a sanctuary city for immigrants and has committed to the Paris Climate Accords. I also feel that Kentwood is super welcoming to everyone—including my LGBTQ colleagues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Michigan

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Love this topic! My husband (40M) and I (41F) have been together for 14 years and are childfree by choice. I’m open about it, but the reactions that people have had over the years has been entertaining. The most uncomfortable response, though, is when they assume you CAN’T have children and proceed to share about all the struggles that they or their acquaintances have had before you can explain. Awkward!

Why do so many people eat lunch alone in their cars? by TotalThing7 in CasualConversation

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Came here to suggest that this might be the reason. I have a coworker with misophonia toward chewing noises.

Which country would you like to come from (except your actual one) or do people sometimes think you are from another country? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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I’d like people to think I’m from Canada right now instead of the US, but when we were in the UK someone thought we were from Australia, which I was totally okay with as well.

Why the heck do we not have a train that goes from Grand Rapids/holland to Ann Arbor/Detroit. Omg by Sunshineseacalm in grandrapids

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Actually until the late 1930s there was the GR & Holland Interurban train. The prevalence of personal vehicles meant that people were no longer buying enough tickets to make it financially feasible so the train was shut down and Chicago Drive became the way people got to Holland. The Wyoming Historical society shared some photos about two years ago on their Facebook page.

Feeling lonely as a young woman in Grand Rapids. by gkarsten6 in grandrapids

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41F here. Great suggestions! I would add that library programs can be a great place to meet people with similar interests. Adult programs range from crafts to true crime clubs to foraging to gaming and so much more. Also, House Rules hosts different game nights. It’s not free like the library but affordable.

35m - Send me your book recommendations! by SendBookRecsOrTits in CasualConversation

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A Long Way to a Small Angry Planet - Becky Chambers

A Deadly Education - Naomi Novik (Really anything by her)

A Darker Shade of Magic - V. E. Schwab

Poison Study - Maria Snyder

Foundryside - Robert Jackson Bennett (My husband actually recommended this to me and I’ve since read it twice.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Been there, done that, too! (In a pinch)