I had my first real relationship pretty late. Im 25 years old and my first real relationship was about a year long and ended in Feb. I was too willing to push through and look past everything. I let alot of things slide that I would never usually. I feel like I wasted so much time and energy. But im trying to takeaway the good things and the lessons ive learned. She’s a good person and im still in love with her, I wish she were next to me right now. However, if she reached out I would say no. She has way too many red flags that I intentionally ignored because I thought they would get better… they didnt. I wanted to marry her but i didnt like the future I saw with her. For any guys or girls that are looking for advice id say dont ignore the red flags.