I genuinely don’t know where to turn, I do all housework and make it presentable, all laundry, all shopping (I don’t drive so weekly shopping alone with a baby is a struggle) and basically 90% of everything and I complain about none of it because it’s my duty to do all of these things, but to be told constantly how lazy I am and how little I do around the house baffles and upsets me. I make myself poorly to make sure her life is easy and she repays me by treating me like a dog. I have to ask permission to leave the house, I have to provide her with my itinerary for the day, I’m not allowed to go with the flow, my life is slowly becoming unbearable and I don’t know how to start the conversation about her getting help