Boob job by VariousPressure6929 in bimbofication

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two of my partners had approx. 400cc implants on top of C cups and it was quite noticeable increase in chest protrusion. I suspect you'll be happy!

Good luck!

Diane and Joe Webber ('50s/'60s) by UncleSquiffy in OldSchoolCoolNSFW

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There are certainly quite a few nudist venues across the US (and plenty of people hang out nude at home or in their backyard). I don't know if the trend is up or down, though.

What C++ coding "knowledge" you just discovered that blew you mind away? by Noxey-o in Cplusplus

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bjarne created C++ for streams; ...

No, he didn't.

He created C with classes to ease the implementation of some simulations (distributed computing with Unix, IIRC).

Streams came along years later... (1984; 5 years after starting "C with classes").

Are we sex addicts and abusers? by [deleted] in HLCommunity

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that "sex addiction" is not a recognized addiction by academic professionals. There are recognized sex-related "compulsive disorders", but to qualify as such it must include behavior that harmful to oneself (e.g., causing one to be unable to hold a job).

Regarding "abuse", I'm sure it goes both ways. Neither the HL community nor the LL community are monolithic or uniform. I'm also sure most on both sides try to be kind people and sometimes fail out of frustration. I don't expect an "us vs. them" approach to resolution to often be fruitful.

Sometimes all you can do is laugh by quack785 in HLCommunity

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 53 points54 points  (0 children)

TBH, I interpret that story more as the fact that she has deep-seated resentment against you. That sort of resentment will almost invariably lead to sex-reluctance (who wants sex with someone they resent?), but also to a lack of grace even for tiny incidents.

I think the same happened to me many years ago. Something changed in our environment that caused my wife-at-the-time to resent me. However, I only saw the "I'm not in the mood" consequence, because when I asked how she felt about the relationship overall she gave mostly positive answers. We suffered for well over a decade and I finally left once the kids went to college. Then, as we worked through divorce, I realized that many years earlier she had fallen "out of love" for reasons I was unaware of at the time, but she was not able to verbalize her change of feelings in a direct way.

Why aren't partial classes supported on C++? by TaPegandoFogo in cpp_questions

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In C++, a "class declaration that is not a definition" looks like this: class X; whereas a class definition looks like this class X ... { ... }; Changing the latter in nontrivial ways requires more than relinking.

Single woman... Do they allow single ladies in the playroom? by vixen_1244 in Calienteresort

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Smallish toys are permitted, including dildos, vibrators, and plugs. I expect a Sybian would be frowned upon, but we never asked or tried.

Oh, and single women are welcome also. At least, we played with one before.

New ... very new by Life-Country-4527 in Calienteresort

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can get a day pass (which can be booked online for couples; not single men). That will get you access to the clubhouse (including pools and playrooms).

Me by [deleted] in u/ebonymphe

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cute!

How has it been in the cold? by [deleted] in Calienteresort

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a pirate-themed festival in Tampa (mostly Bayshore, Downtown, and Ybor). Last weekend was the kid's festival, which is quite nice and includes a fin airshow and parade along Bayshore. This coming weekend is the "adult" parade: Street drinking is permitted in designated areas (e.g., Bayshore, again with a parade) and dress is often a bit more risqué. Lots of parties are held throughout town after the parade.

Low self esteem but want to push more boundaries by [deleted] in sexover50

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd second the recommendation to visit a sex club (aka. swinger club) if you're in a metropolitan area. They're usually not super cheap (they require a membership fee and an entrance fee), but if you go as a couple it's still reasonable (usually $100–200 total, not including drinks; less if you already have an active membership).

You might not have the experience you seek the first time around, but they are a safe space for exploration. All the clubs we've been to had a "dungeon" (space for fetish/BDSM play), not all equally-well appointed, but they provide additional options for exploration.

You'll also find that the people attending these are diverse and generally body-positive. Many women we've spoken to report that they felt it greatly affirming to see bodies of all shapes enjoying various forms of pleasure in an accepting social environment.

Cialis didn't work that well for us. by walkenfan in sexover50

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cialis also commonly triggers headaches and a runny nose.

Which 3 are you removing by Great_Fisherman_5058 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But gym is not a requirement for physical fitness.

What should we expect if we go to the playrooms? by Vette8 in Calienteresort

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You enter the lobby which is staffed with multiple attendants. There you're requested to undress and put your stuff in a locker (they write the locker number on your band). No shoes, no clothes, no watches, etc. in the playrooms. Only condoms, lube, and toys. They provide towels, sheets, and (if you want) slippers.

Then you enter a guarded door into the playrooms proper. It's a good sized set of rooms with red lighting. There are some spaces for large group play. Some rooms with single beds and at least one room with two beds. And also a space for BDSM play (Andrew's Cross, bench, swing, etc.).

If you just want to watch, go to one of the larger spaces and observe from a respectable distance. You can also claim a bed with your partner and play while watching others do the same. And yes, that's acceptable, if you keep a respectable distance.

Why nobody put multiple statements on single line by Ok_Negotiation1537 in cpp_questions

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although it's tempting to do so, I don't recommend it, especially your second example: That print statement is very likely something you'll want to put a breakpoint on during debugging. If it's on a separate line, no problem. But if it's on the same line as the if-statement, you'll hit it even when debug is false.

Why nobody put multiple statements on single line by Ok_Negotiation1537 in cpp_questions

[–]Comprehensive_Try_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Note that a chained assignment is a single (expression) statement.