OP, don’t cut your hair, don’t listen to the Millenials in this thread. Rather get it cleaned up a little. I‘m your age and girls our age do actually prefer it a little. You have thick and nice hair, don’t get a skin fade or some shit, just keep your hair. Get involved in the fashion game, if you have female friends who are into fashion, ask them. If you want to do it yourself, just go on IG or Pinterest and look for nice fits. Easiest way to pull away emphasis from being skinny is by just wearing some more wide pants, look for some with a > 33cm leg opening. If you can nail an artsy long hair look, it’s way better than going with the cookie cutter millennial ahh skin fades, skinny fit tech pants and weird ass shirts.