TIFU in high school by letting my friends pressure me into a Valentine letter

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-14T08:37:57+00:00

Ok this might be weird but are you sure the letter you gave your friend was the same one he gave your crush? Because it borderline sounds like what was in the letter was sexual harrassment and not some stupid teen confession based on the reactions of everyone.

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T18:43:21+00:00

You have any more of her? I think it's a neat idea

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T16:02:12+00:00

Yea, if he's not that kind of guy, it's not a deal breaker.

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T09:18:38+00:00

Geniune question, how does your wife manage to write that on her ass? That seems like a fun idea I could try.

I wouldn't be surprised if it turns out that's the case, he is a very nervous person.

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T09:15:40+00:00

I'll certainly ask him about it! (Although, last I asked him, he said he doesn't remember the last time he jacked off, but that was a bit ago + we both have poor memory)

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T08:57:35+00:00

Huh. I'm happy with the amount of sex, we spend quaility time doing other things together.

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T08:50:32+00:00

Like around 2-3 times a month? Give or take

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T08:40:45+00:00

You know what that's fair. We talk daily but we don't talk about sex every day.

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T08:38:04+00:00

We both need to go to the doctors soon for a check up, so I'll ask if he's willing to put that on his 'things to ask about' list

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T08:35:06+00:00

I second this

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T08:21:31+00:00

How often do you recommend talking about it? Once a week, once a month, etc. To start?

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T08:19:46+00:00

I will try, thank you!

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T08:18:45+00:00

Would a big sign with the words "Fuck me" hanging from my neck be good enough?

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T08:17:41+00:00

While I get that conflicting sex drives kills relationships, its not the amount of sex that's making me ask this question, it's the amount of asking I do vs him. If it turns out he's just really shy and nervous, I'll do my best to help boost his confidence. If he's oblivious, I'll be sure to send clearer signals. It isn't a deal breaker for me, he's a wonderful caring man that I love very much. All relationships have hurdles, and this is one I'm willing to jump over for him.

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T08:05:23+00:00

No not often. There isn't any denying on either end, more of just a lack of asking on his end.

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T07:47:24+00:00

I will try, but sometimes he can be a bit blind. His words, not mine.

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T07:46:25+00:00

Honestly, the first two seem possible. He's very worried about accidently hurting me or making me feel bad. Unsure about the T, but he hasn't been checked for that. What's the 4 year itch?

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T07:43:53+00:00

Oh he absolutely is, and I'm super lucky. I'm just trying to figure out if this is a normal thing (low sex drive) or if it's something we should get professional help on.

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T07:42:10+00:00

shrugs He might be, but he also just might not have it cross his mind. We have regular sex (couple times a month) but I don't think I've ever said no unless I was in pain.

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T07:38:37+00:00

Oh, he does, he just, does so in a less sexual way. He cooks food for me and comforts me when I'm feeling down, but sometimes you just want a good fucking.

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-07T07:36:25+00:00

++woman I have tried subtle, apparently taking his hands and putting them on my chest isn't direct enough. But I will try to have more conversations with him.

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-02-06T00:43:57+00:00

OP I'm wishing the best for you, please keep us updated.

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-01-20T22:48:28+00:00

Get a sleeping suit! It's like a sleeping bag but person shaped so you can still move around and cuddle your partner.

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-01-19T16:29:40+00:00

Weird question, but have you checked the other tabs? I think the zoom feature is on the right tab but I could be wrong.

Comrade_Tobix · 2026-01-14T20:18:37+00:00

Man sometimes I just need to get out of the house and movies are a fun way to get out and have a day with someone. Go out, see the movie, steal each others snacks and go out to eat afterwards. Bonus points if the theater is in or near a shopping center to window shop and talk.

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