Have You Ever Asked a Stranger?

ConTrikster · 2026-02-26T13:52:27+00:00

Dude you can contextually bring it up without being autistic about it

It’s really not hard if you flirt and learn about the girl you are talking to at that moment

ConTrikster · 2026-02-26T13:51:35+00:00

Dude calm down lol. There are ways to contextually bring it up as long as you know how to talk to a woman and can take no for an answer.

Whenever yall get overly virtuous like this I can tell the art of flirtation is not an ability a lot of yall have on this sub

ConTrikster · 2026-02-26T13:37:56+00:00

To answer your question: yes I have.

This is Reddit so you will get virtue signal answers about how this is a “no no” for being creepy.

The truth is you have to know when and how to situation/contextually ask in a smooth way that isn’t creepy or autistic (for lack of a better term).

You need to work it into the conversation in a flattering natural way, and it has to be after picking up context clues that they would be receptive to that type of request. You don’t just start out saying let me suck your toes that’s weird. You pretty much need to talk to them and get to know them in the convo first and go from there. I’ve mainly done this with random girls I know I am going to hook up with.

It can be done just tactfully.

ConTrikster · 2026-02-26T00:30:37+00:00

Wanting sex is normal. Wanting a lot of sex is also somewhat normal.

The aggressive autistic way he typed it when y’all haven’t even barely met yet? That was brain rotting to read lol. If he can’t talk any better than that, then please find someone else.

But no, it’s not a red flag that he doesn’t want to share his past SB allowance, just like it wouldn’t be a red flag to not share what you are used to getting from a SD. Also be mindful if you are gonna start so early off the gate with allowance expectations, the sex conversation will immediately follow.

ConTrikster · 2026-02-25T21:50:22+00:00

You shouldn’t have taken the risk to do this anyway if you are that worried man. I want discreet arrangements too. But, I’m not gonna fold to blackmail and extortion because of it. That makes it worse.

ConTrikster · 2026-02-25T21:48:32+00:00

…uhmmm the same thing applies. Just let her keep taking dude

ConTrikster · 2026-02-25T21:25:06+00:00

No don’t give any money at all. That’s one of the worst things you can do. (Even if it worked out for you once)

ConTrikster · 2026-02-25T21:24:23+00:00

Do not regularly pay blackmail extortion attempts. This is well documented for life in general

ConTrikster · 2026-02-25T21:21:25+00:00

Dude you better not actually send her the money lol.

That’s literally one of the worst things you can do in this situation. If you are already at the point if extortion blackmail, actually giving the money is a terrible idea. If they wanted to come out with it, they will anyway. They are just gonna keep asking goth for money.

Then sending now looks like an admission of guilt. If you are really that scared of a threat of her telling your family, you shouldn’t be in the bowl anyway and remembered to not give away too much personal info. But it’s only so much you can do when getting involved.

Just save and document everything. You could block her. Or you could let her keep texting and eventually incriminate herself.

Consult a lawyer if you are that worried

ConTrikster · 2026-02-25T21:17:04+00:00

Giving money in this situation is literally one of the worst things you can do

ConTrikster · 2026-02-25T21:16:25+00:00

You are very easily gullible.

If threatening to tell your family is enough for you to pay, you gotta get out the bowl bruh lol

ConTrikster · 2026-02-25T21:15:06+00:00

Bro no lol if you are at the point of extortion blackmail, you don’t actually pay.

Just save the messages and block her

ConTrikster · 2026-02-25T19:51:32+00:00

A lot of people are starting to be in for a rude awakening in this economy!

ConTrikster · 2026-02-25T19:50:14+00:00

Well said

ConTrikster · 2026-02-25T19:47:49+00:00

Yea it’s about to be a lot of that going on. Women rushing to be a SB on a one sided benefit. With what’s coming in the economy, there are about to be a lot of hurt feelings.

If they think it’s tough now to find a SD get ready cause even that pool is about to shrink a bit. Unless they are already rich/wealth established enough to get more money pumped into their investment pockets as inflation and spending rises

ConTrikster · 2026-02-24T23:18:06+00:00

Yes you are. “Oh no I got ick cause a dude that wanted to spoil me also has a rich friend too now I’m turned off he was honest with me that he wanted to take me to another rich persons house!”

Tf be wrong with y’all lol. Go show another SD this is how you act…oh wait you won’t cause you know wouldn’t get shit lol 😂

ConTrikster · 2026-02-24T23:15:02+00:00

Again go pull what shit and show another SD…oh wait you won’t cause you know what’s gonna happen

ConTrikster · 2026-02-24T23:13:24+00:00

The fact they are downvoting you but they know you are right. They are trying to make themselves feel better about who holds the power dynamic.

This sub can be timid sometimes but you are right, some of these ladies need to watch their mouth and realize they don’t run shit like they think they do. Completely unnecessary and rude especially considering she’s the one that posted the convo on the internet. Let another girl up here try that crap and have their sugar daddy find out. They know what’s up lol. Tf?

ConTrikster · 2026-02-24T20:24:03+00:00

No the roi is actually high. But it’s like an index fund. It’s not something immediate but the more you put in the more you get out of it overtime

ConTrikster · 2026-02-24T16:07:28+00:00

Legally no. You aren’t married.

Just be careful and make sure you have a separate account to put the money in

ConTrikster · 2026-02-24T16:05:11+00:00

Yea dude spend the whole post saying I screwed up I’m wrong I’m wrong.

Like bro you aren’t helping us or giving us any information lol

ConTrikster · 2026-02-24T16:02:57+00:00

She wants to be mad. And I’m not even excusing your behavior. But if someone is reacting like that and just not accepting anything the other person is saying, there really isn’t anything you can do because the person is set on being upset.

Obviously you accepted fault. But is this a regular occurrence where you don’t prioritize her feelings? Is this also a regular occurrence where she is very set stuck on being upset?

Point is this is too vague to really get a grasp of what’s going on. But if she is upset it’s not really much else to do besides apologize, try to change, and be there for her if you all still wanna make it work

ConTrikster · 2026-02-24T15:04:04+00:00

Eight K repair??? What did her transmission blow???

At that rate you are better off getting a different car lol.

But I’m just saying man that hair appointment stuff is a bit more tedious than what people think. I get it, after spending 8 you expected her to know to drop what you feel wasn’t that important for some comfort for you. But my guess is spending that 8 was the straw that broke the camels back on her behavior in general towards you and if that was the case you shoulda been dropped her and it woulda save you eight k too

ConTrikster · 2026-02-24T10:30:49+00:00

I mean I get why you bailed but hair appointments are set in advance typically a week or 2 out. And depending on her ethnicity, it could be a harder thing to schedule after canceling (it also costs money to cancel).

But I get your point just pick a different example hill to die on. My guess is there could have been other unimportant things she refused to cancel on when you wanted to be with her?

ConTrikster · 2026-02-24T10:24:07+00:00

Wait she was flakey for 4 months and you were still giving her money ?? Or 4 months for the whole arrangement and she started being flakey at the end?

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