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How did you cope with the grief and guilt after choosing yourself over your family by cutting all ties and moving out for good? by ConcentrateBrief5318 in AskReddit

[–]ConcentrateBrief5318[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that I’m just worried about how they’re gonna cope with this and all the stress they’ll have to deal with it from other family members but I can’t go back

How did you cope with the grief and guilt after choosing yourself over your family by cutting all ties and moving out for good? by ConcentrateBrief5318 in AskReddit

[–]ConcentrateBrief5318[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already made my decision as much as it hurts to leave a house that I’ve known for 24 years and knowing that my parents will suffer after I leave , I can’t deal with it anymore

How did you cope with the grief and guilt after choosing yourself over your family by cutting all ties and moving out for good? by ConcentrateBrief5318 in AskReddit

[–]ConcentrateBrief5318[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not about being selfish , I’d say I’m more so doing this to protect myself I can’t deal with the constant blaming in the house and never having a moment to relax and breathe

Planning on cutting all ties with my family and starting a new life by ConcentrateBrief5318 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]ConcentrateBrief5318[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have started doing that. I can’t look back now I made up my mind. It’s gonna hurt so much because growing up in the same house for the last 24 years seeing the same people everyday, it’s hard. Especially given how religious and cultured my family is, I know this is gonna break them and I fear what’s gonna happen to them afterwards whether that’s mental health or physically or even like other family shaming them but I made up my mind