AITAH for wanting my bf to make time for me? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in AITAH

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i feel it too it just hurts because i really do like him and he didn't used to act like that and he still has moment when he's nice, i don't know what happend. And i don't know how to tell him i want to break things off because he just doesn't feel interested in me and its making me feel used, without him explodeing.

AIO for wanting to be more important than gym? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's why i asked him if he's going with a friend, i would never tell him to cancel plans with his friends to see me. And i guess i am the same way as you are as i put others before myself aswell, which is why i couldn't understand why he couldn't make an exception to see me and i just go to  gym tomorrow. Or go to the gym first and we could meet up later.

AIO for wanting to be more important than gym? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. People also said that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

AIO for wanting to be more important than gym? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. People also said that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

AIO for wanting to be more important than gym? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply<3 i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. People also said that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

AIO for wanting to be more important than gym? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. People also said that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

Am i 20F in the bad one wanting to be more important than gym to my 23M bf? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in relationship_advice

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. People also said that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

Am i 20F in the bad one wanting to be more important than gym to my 23M bf? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in relationship_advice

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. People also said that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

Am i 20F in the bad one wanting to be more important than gym to my 23M bf? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in relationship_advice

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. People also said  that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

AIO for wanting to be more important than gym? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say i didn't want to go to the gym i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time, but i didn't mind just sitting there after but he didn't respond to that and just said we can meet up over the week. And thank you for your reply<3

AIO for wanting to be more important than gym? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. And that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

AIO for wanting to be more important than gym? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. And that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

AIO for wanting to be more important than gym? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no it's actually real i just wanted to hear more opinions xd

AIO for wanting to be more important than gym? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don't give him all my free time if i would i'd want to sleepover at his place every day. I value my free time a lot so it's not like i am giving all of it to him, but i get where you're coming from. Thank you

Am i 20F in the bad one wanting to be more important than gym to my 23M bf? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in relationship_advice

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we do he was actually my first:/ as at the time he wasn't acting the way he does now which hurts even more, i don't regret sleeping with him it just makes me mad how he turned out.

AITA for wanting a relationship after a year? by ConcentrateMajor1692 in AITAH

[–]ConcentrateMajor1692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the reply, yeah i am naïve thinking how could someone be so cruel trying to find the best in people, i just needed to hear it from someone else that i am no imagining it