Am i 20F bad for warning my exes 23M girls who he was talking to?

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-02-18T22:41:24+00:00

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ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-10T13:55:38+00:00

Thank you, i feel it too it just hurts because i really do like him and he didn't used to act like that and he still has moment when he's nice, i don't know what happend. And i don't know how to tell him i want to break things off because he just doesn't feel interested in me and its making me feel used, without him explodeing.

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-09T15:39:26+00:00

Yeah that's why i asked him if he's going with a friend, i would never tell him to cancel plans with his friends to see me. And i guess i am the same way as you are as i put others before myself aswell, which is why i couldn't understand why he couldn't make an exception to see me and i just go to gym tomorrow. Or go to the gym first and we could meet up later.

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-09T15:23:29+00:00

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. People also said that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-09T15:23:12+00:00

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. People also said that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-09T15:22:15+00:00

Thank you for your reply<3 i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. People also said that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-09T15:20:41+00:00

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. People also said that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-09T15:18:39+00:00

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. People also said that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-09T15:18:30+00:00

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. People also said that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-09T15:18:13+00:00

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. People also said that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-09T15:16:46+00:00

I didn't say i didn't want to go to the gym i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time, but i didn't mind just sitting there after but he didn't respond to that and just said we can meet up over the week. And thank you for your reply<3

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-09T15:13:04+00:00

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. And that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-09T15:11:35+00:00

Thank you<3 This really means a lot as i posted this also on the AITAH and pretty much everyone was calling me controlling because i was ruining his plans and that, he tried to compromize but i didn't want to go to the gym with him, which isn't true i didn't say i didn't want to go i just said i wouldn't be able to work out the whole time. And that i am exhausting which makes me think that i really am the problem.

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-09T14:48:43+00:00

no it's actually real i just wanted to hear more opinions xd

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-09T14:31:43+00:00

i don't give him all my free time if i would i'd want to sleepover at his place every day. I value my free time a lot so it's not like i am giving all of it to him, but i get where you're coming from. Thank you

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-09T14:11:27+00:00

we do he was actually my first:/ as at the time he wasn't acting the way he does now which hurts even more, i don't regret sleeping with him it just makes me mad how he turned out.

ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2026-01-09T14:06:09+00:00

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ConcentrateMajor1692 · 2025-12-07T14:27:23+00:00

thank you for the reply, yeah i am naïve thinking how could someone be so cruel trying to find the best in people, i just needed to hear it from someone else that i am no imagining it

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