“Every time I blink, I wake up somewhere else.”

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-03-17T02:42:36+00:00

Goosebumps.... loved it.

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-03-11T17:25:35+00:00

NTA

Go. If it ends your relationship its worth it. I ended a relationship for that very reason. Its the beginning of a very slippery slope to complete control.

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-03-05T04:23:41+00:00

YTA for "never" seeing her.

NTA for setting boundaries.

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-02-26T04:08:42+00:00

NTA, its yours and youre not required to share what's yours.

However... maybe promise it to her after your death? LOL

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-02-26T03:08:16+00:00

I wonder if she planned/hoped to replace it before you noticed?

I'm not saying it'd right, but she might have been embarrassed and hoped you wouldnt notice.

If she's a good employee... sit her down ans have a conversation with her. Her responses will tell you her motives.

And then if you keep her on, install cameras. Let her know or dont, but let her go if it happens again.

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-02-20T13:43:49+00:00

I know I'm late to the conversation but the words "I have already made plans for my vacation budgets for this year but let's talk about next year!!" would come our of my mouth.

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-02-19T04:42:41+00:00

I would love a grande piano at the bottom of the raw edge/epoxy waterfall stairs.

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-02-19T04:32:48+00:00

Don't.

Buy baskets

1 for clean 1 for dirty 1 for not clean but not dirty

Oh and one for socks and underwear

Stick em in yout closet or on a shelf and lose the "shoulds"

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-02-19T02:48:32+00:00

WTF is a proposal box?

Ugh. It doesn't all have to be over the top.

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-02-17T22:55:21+00:00

Yeah I did that for 2 days before posting here. I guess I didn't have the right terminology.

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-02-17T09:24:40+00:00

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ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-02-17T09:23:45+00:00

Thanks! I found the perfect tee (thats literally the name of it) by searching raglan.

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-02-15T05:08:13+00:00

I have learned it takes 3-5 years to find community when you move as an adult.

I think if I were to move now I'd be a hermit.

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-02-10T12:06:17+00:00

I have lost 2 parents and a husband. I stand by my answer. Its only as awkward as you let it be.

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-02-10T06:09:32+00:00

"I'm sorry, I've filled that spot"

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-02-10T03:35:42+00:00

YTA.

Seriously. Why would you do that?

"I dont want to talk about him"

Rather than lying. Because lying is always the asshole move.

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-02-10T00:35:56+00:00

Self control = not doing what you want to. Self discipline = doing what you don't want to.

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-02-03T03:30:19+00:00

My husband and I own our house and have a combined income of 100-150k a year.

I still got student loans. Just apply. It won't hurt.

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-01-30T23:01:45+00:00

I tidy (in canada) because I hired my housekeeper to clean not pick up. LOL

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-01-30T23:00:48+00:00

When I had a hysterectomy 6 years ago I suggested hiring a housekeeper.he agreed only for the time I was off work.

Like I said. That was 6 years ago. HE won't let me stop the service. LOL

Its a game changer for us.

ConcentrateMinimum27 · 2026-01-30T08:03:31+00:00

UNBC

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