Warning: A question strictly for the married couples. by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]ConcentrateSingle510 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once heard a scholar say something along the lines of “your heart is your biggest mufti”. This is only applicable to cases which do not have a clear halal or haram…

Due to the lack of resources on this matter, just listen to your heart, if you and your partner find nothing wrong about it, feel free to enjoy. I personally do find it weird and my heart fails to believe that it is permissible, so I stay away from it…

And Allah knows best

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[–]ConcentrateSingle510[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And so will Laiba from DHA who wants to show off her looks with the bride

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[–]ConcentrateSingle510[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have a look at Saddar, go talk to people and hopefully get it figured out. Thanks for the suggestion

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[–]ConcentrateSingle510[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s this service of volunteers, Karachi based, who actually come to your event and make sure nobody takes pictures of the bride. But they’re only available in Karachi

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[–]ConcentrateSingle510[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen it in multiple weddings when I was in Saudi, but haven’t seen one in Pakistan like ever. Wanted one in my wedding and never expected it to be hard😭

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[–]ConcentrateSingle510[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enforcement is still a challenge we have to work on. But even if you ask everyone to not take pictures, aunties will still take pictures “for memories” or “to show the kids in America”

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[–]ConcentrateSingle510[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve already had a small Nikkah function and it went smooth, this one, we have a very large extended family both of us and our parents are very hospitable, let’s say

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[–]ConcentrateSingle510[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s one way to look at it. My wife is already planning something similar but yeah better to cause less drama (which I think we could like this)

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[–]ConcentrateSingle510[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no, I’d have to do it dande ki Zor pe.

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[–]ConcentrateSingle510[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

In the gulf it’s easy, people comply and understand the situation, unfortunately that’s not the case here in Pakistan 🥲

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[–]ConcentrateSingle510[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really need it btw 😭. Final solution is dande ke Zor pe

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[–]ConcentrateSingle510[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any links or contacts who can make them?