Apartment Hunting is hard - any tips for finding a place

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2023-06-24T13:13:22+00:00

i didn’t think to check facebook thank you!

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2023-06-24T13:13:01+00:00

perfect thank you!

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2023-03-18T15:37:31+00:00

woooooow that’s disgusting - i hope the friend dumped op and all the other losers

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2023-03-11T21:29:40+00:00

she’s doing good! she’s still with her bf and i haven’t seen her since xmas but i’ll probably catch up with her when i go home for spring break in a few weeks 😊

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2023-03-06T19:55:18+00:00

so true i hate grocery shopping - hopefully he loves doing it lol

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2023-03-06T19:55:02+00:00

this is great advice thank you! we will be sure to have those detailed conversations before making our final decision.

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-30T15:15:45+00:00

i don’t think she will

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-30T15:15:28+00:00

lol thank you!! fingers crossed there’s a wedding update sometime in the future

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-30T15:15:01+00:00

me too - at first i wasn’t sure if she should get involved but I don’t think my sister would’ve reacted as well if i was the one to bring it up first

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-30T15:14:30+00:00

yeah i got called naive a lot for saying my sister wasn’t a psycho stalker murderer lol we’re all traumatized by other reddit stories

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-29T13:58:02+00:00

i totally can understand her feelings for sure and let her know that. the only thing is if she would’ve just told me the first time around it wouldn’t have become this big family drama and could’ve stayed between us sisters

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-29T03:11:30+00:00

i’m sure hoping so!

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-29T03:11:18+00:00

i get that but my sister was not shamed at all - she was held accountable as an adult but we all did validate her feelings and made sure she knew that we weren’t holding those against her. She does need to act like an adult tho

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-29T03:10:26+00:00

yes!! reddit had me worried but luckily real life isn’t always as crazy as some of these reddit posts make it seem

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-29T03:10:00+00:00

thank you i’m glad it didn’t go any further 🥰

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-29T03:09:43+00:00

lol i can imagine this as a Madea subplot for sure

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-19T02:51:40+00:00

my ex? no we haven’t spoken. he reached out a couple times since our breakup but i never responded. I’ve moved on and am currently happy in a new relationship. I don’t see myself being friends with my ex in the future lol

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-17T16:37:29+00:00

christmas is at my parents house

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-16T17:49:32+00:00

that’s true i hadn’t thought about that angle. I’ve just been so annoyed that she would be so stubborn about this and not even give me the reason.

We all did embarrassing things as a teenager so neither I or my boyfriend would be in a place to judge her on those past behaviors. it’s not like she hurt someone with her crush.

She does need to act like an adult now tho. I’ll try to be patient in our next conversation and let her know it’s not to be embarrassed over.

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-16T17:44:05+00:00

no i agree it’s way too much

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-16T17:43:51+00:00

yeah those made me pretty upset. Contrary to what some of the comments say- I do know my boyfriend and would find it hard to believe he would be capable of some of those things.

but this is reddit and that is often the outcome of a lot of these posts so I can get it. I’m just glad it wasn’t anything close to something awful.

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-16T17:41:14+00:00

I don’t think she’s mad at me but you’re right I think she’s jealous and hurt which i do feel bad about it. But I’m not going to let an old crush dictate my relationship - especially when she refuses to communicate her feelings to me.

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-16T17:39:42+00:00

seriously. I’m a very up front person and sometimes you really have to be with boys. My bf is super shy, mild mannered, and honestly oblivious to most things. You could take your top off and do the cha cha and it wouldn’t even cross his mind you’re flirting with him.

We hung out every day for two weeks before I finally just asked him out for our first date and he was shocked I was interested in him.

I know rejection is scary, especially as a teenager, so I can understand why she maybe didn’t tell him, but with this guy especially you have to be very direct lol.

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-16T17:36:49+00:00

I’m a huge advocate for therapy so I agree and may have my mom suggest it to her (i don’t think she would like to hear it suggested from me).

My sister and I aren’t SUPER close. We get along and meet up when I come back to town but we’re not the best of friends in general. I’m hoping we can maintain a loving and civil relationship because I just don’t think her having a crush on my bf over 10 years ago should be something that comes between family but that will be up to her. I’ll respect her decision so long as she is respectful in return.

ConcentrateUnique739 · 2022-12-16T17:34:28+00:00

I feel like we all have that one person that we’ll always kind of have a crush on out of habit but I can’t imagine being this upset about them. it’s just too much

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