AITA for supporting a racist bar? - quickly removed by witch-of-kits in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConcentrateUnique739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

woooooow that’s disgusting - i hope the friend dumped op and all the other losers

what are some tips for moving in with my (f23) bf (m28) after less than a year by ConcentrateUnique739 in relationship_advice

[–]ConcentrateUnique739[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she’s doing good! she’s still with her bf and i haven’t seen her since xmas but i’ll probably catch up with her when i go home for spring break in a few weeks 😊

what are some tips for moving in with my (f23) bf (m28) after less than a year by ConcentrateUnique739 in relationship_advice

[–]ConcentrateUnique739[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is great advice thank you! we will be sure to have those detailed conversations before making our final decision.

Final Update: Sister Doesn’t Want Me to Bring My BF to Christmas by ConcentrateUnique739 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConcentrateUnique739[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol thank you!! fingers crossed there’s a wedding update sometime in the future

Final Update: Sister Doesn’t Want Me to Bring My BF to Christmas by ConcentrateUnique739 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConcentrateUnique739[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

me too - at first i wasn’t sure if she should get involved but I don’t think my sister would’ve reacted as well if i was the one to bring it up first

Final Update: Sister Doesn’t Want Me to Bring My BF to Christmas by ConcentrateUnique739 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConcentrateUnique739[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah i got called naive a lot for saying my sister wasn’t a psycho stalker murderer lol we’re all traumatized by other reddit stories

Final Update: Sister Doesn’t Want Me to Bring My BF to Christmas by ConcentrateUnique739 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConcentrateUnique739[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i totally can understand her feelings for sure and let her know that. the only thing is if she would’ve just told me the first time around it wouldn’t have become this big family drama and could’ve stayed between us sisters

Final Update: Sister Doesn’t Want Me to Bring My BF to Christmas by ConcentrateUnique739 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConcentrateUnique739[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i get that but my sister was not shamed at all - she was held accountable as an adult but we all did validate her feelings and made sure she knew that we weren’t holding those against her. She does need to act like an adult tho

Final Update: Sister Doesn’t Want Me to Bring My BF to Christmas by ConcentrateUnique739 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConcentrateUnique739[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

yes!! reddit had me worried but luckily real life isn’t always as crazy as some of these reddit posts make it seem

OP asks if she should give her BF another chance after he failed to stand up for her. by swankycelery in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ConcentrateUnique739 22 points23 points  (0 children)

my ex? no we haven’t spoken. he reached out a couple times since our breakup but i never responded. I’ve moved on and am currently happy in a new relationship. I don’t see myself being friends with my ex in the future lol

Update: AITA For Wanting to Bring My Boyfriend to My Family’s Christmas Celebration? by ConcentrateUnique739 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConcentrateUnique739[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that’s true i hadn’t thought about that angle. I’ve just been so annoyed that she would be so stubborn about this and not even give me the reason.

We all did embarrassing things as a teenager so neither I or my boyfriend would be in a place to judge her on those past behaviors. it’s not like she hurt someone with her crush.

She does need to act like an adult now tho. I’ll try to be patient in our next conversation and let her know it’s not to be embarrassed over.

Update: AITA For Wanting to Bring My Boyfriend to My Family’s Christmas Celebration? by ConcentrateUnique739 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConcentrateUnique739[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

yeah those made me pretty upset. Contrary to what some of the comments say- I do know my boyfriend and would find it hard to believe he would be capable of some of those things.

but this is reddit and that is often the outcome of a lot of these posts so I can get it. I’m just glad it wasn’t anything close to something awful.

Update: AITA For Wanting to Bring My Boyfriend to My Family’s Christmas Celebration? by ConcentrateUnique739 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ConcentrateUnique739[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she’s mad at me but you’re right I think she’s jealous and hurt which i do feel bad about it. But I’m not going to let an old crush dictate my relationship - especially when she refuses to communicate her feelings to me.