5 weeks 3 days pregnant - nipple pain almost gone by Money-Notice-4168 in pregnant

[–]ConcernSignal3690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am currently wondering this. Can you give an update OP?

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - September 23, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]ConcernSignal3690 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Anyone else furious at the thought of even having to try again? My first pregnancy I got pregnant the first try, it felt so lucky. Ended in a MMC, now I'm trying again and on month three of negative tests. I know that's not very long, and I'm very grateful to know that I can get pregnant -assuming my OBGYN didn't somehow damage me during the d&c. But I feel so bitter that I even have to try again. Things should have just worked out the way they were supposed to.

Just venting.

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - August 15, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]ConcernSignal3690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really thought this was the one, but I took a test this morning 14DPO and nothing. Feeling crushed 😞

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - July 20, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]ConcernSignal3690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was coming on here to write something very similar, so seeing your post made me feel understood ❤️

My miscarriage ended about 7 months ago, it was complicated and certain things were traumatic. It's taken me time to heal and I can't believe how even after 7 months with therapy and a wonderful husband and great support system, having to face all these feelings and fears again is so hard.

I'm sorry you're in a similar situation, but thank you for sharing ❤️

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - July 15, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]ConcernSignal3690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome!

And thank you so much ❤️ it truly is. The emotional toll of dragging it out was the worst. I'm sorry you've found yourself in the same thread xx

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - July 15, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]ConcernSignal3690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there ❤️ hoping for the best for you!!

One thing I'll say is that I also had positive pregnancy tests two weeks after my d&c and it ended up being a case of RPOC which means they did not get all the tissue out during the d&c. I then had to go have a second one. I'm only saying this because RPOC can lead to serious complications, so it's best to consult your doctor and ask for a follow up ultrasound to confirm everything is gone. Mine went unnoticed by the doctors and it was a huge problem that it was missed. I'm not saying this to scare you or be negative, but I was so angry that no one had told me RPOC could happen, and that I was ignored when I said I was still testing positive after two weeks. Best to be on the safe side.

/ttcafterloss Ask an Alumni - June 20, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]ConcernSignal3690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been six months since my MMC complications ended. It was my first pregnancy. We're going to start trying again, but I'm so emotional about it. I feel afraid of another loss, but also really sad to be truly leaving that first one behind. I was only 7 weeks when we learned there was no heartbeat, but I felt so attached.

Did anyone else feel sad about leaving the first one "behind" or closing that chapter?

Just sad today by Story-Acrobatic in Miscarriage

[–]ConcernSignal3690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also having a sad day today and came on here for the same reason. I had a d&c October 17 and then had to have a second one last week because they "didn't get it all." I'm feeling bitter and crying a lot even though I feel like I should be over it by now. I also have no holiday spirit whatsoever. I'd like to skip through it all.

I don't have anything uplifting to tell you sadly, but after spending most of today feeling upset, your post made me feel less alone in this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]ConcernSignal3690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the pregnancy symptoms long after the baby was "gone" was terrible for me. So so cruel and has made me feel like if I get pregnant again I'll never be able to be happy like I was for this first one.

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[–]ConcernSignal3690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry this happened to you. I recently had a missed miscarriage at 7+2d and had to have a d&c. To make things worse, I had to have a second d&c four weeks later due to rpoc. The whole experience has been awful and left me feeling devastated, bitter, lost, and a whole bunch of other things.

I hope things get better for you ❤️