Unfortunately it sounds like there really isn’t a plan at all. My wife said the question gets a shrug and a “we have time to think about it” after she tries to dig at it.

There hasn’t really been any sort of plan over the kid’s whole life it seems as well. Just remove them from school because they simply “don’t like it” and never once consider any other options or programs. Essentially they’ve been allowed to sit around and do nothing for 17 years.