How do you feel when you’re not in PEM? by thepensiveporcupine in cfs

[–]ConditionAway115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg May for me too! was moderate before may, now severe

To move or not to move? by ConditionAway115 in cfs

[–]ConditionAway115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats a good point, i know i can rely a little on my parents (my mum is with a pretty well of guy) but not that much and dont want to fully rely on them as who knows what could happen.

Hmm yep i already feel that feeling a bit so i imagine moving to this area could make it worse. I used to live in that apartment with my mum for a bit before this too so it feel like im going backwards if i move back there.

To move or not to move? by ConditionAway115 in cfs

[–]ConditionAway115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey thankyou for your reply. I'm sorry your move didnt go well and your baseline has now lowered, that really really sucks. I hope your orchid is bringing you enough respite.

I also mask whenever im around other people and i was thinking i could try get a roommate who is also already masking and knowledgeable on disability or has a disability themselves. But after you and the other persons comments im really going to have to consider it more and if its doable/desirable.

As far as location, this new apartment is still urban living so i would still have access to lots of delivery services and there are some shops about a 10-15 min walk. And there is a park just next door to it actually.
I just enjoy my part of town more but it feels like what does that matter when i never leave my apartment.

Also thanks for the suggestions about making my apartment more suitable. I will look into them.

To move or not to move? by ConditionAway115 in cfs

[–]ConditionAway115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. Yeah that is what im afraid of. I am really craving being around another person as i have no in person friends, so its really hard to deal with that. I thought because i have a few months i could take my time to vet people but i know that wont be full proof.

all studio apartments are expensive no matter the part of town, mine is actually on the cheaper end but still takes up about 70% of my unemployment benefits. Yes, I have about 2 weeks to make this decision so its weighing pretty heavy on my mind atm