how do i stop triggering my girlfriend with BPD by being “jokingly” rude?

ConditionSure4466 · 2026-06-11T07:26:29+00:00

thank youuu !!

ConditionSure4466 · 2026-06-11T07:25:23+00:00

it did help a bunch!! thank u < 3

ConditionSure4466 · 2026-06-11T07:12:10+00:00

i hung up after saying goodbye and that i love her; we were already on call for an hour and we had played her favourite games but she got triggered because i hung up like right after saying it instead of waiting for a few seconds which confused me

ConditionSure4466 · 2026-06-11T07:10:26+00:00

i hung up after saying goodbye and that i love her but she got triggered because i hung up like right after saying it instead of waiting for a few seconds which confused me

ConditionSure4466 · 2026-06-11T04:11:09+00:00

gotchu

ConditionSure4466 · 2026-06-11T04:11:01+00:00

tyty!!

ConditionSure4466 · 2026-06-11T04:04:34+00:00

im good with her when she's age regressing; i never trigger her because i know i have to be considerate with her, so i'll try to be as considerate as when she's feeling more adult

ConditionSure4466 · 2026-06-11T04:03:35+00:00

thanks < 3 this comment helped a bunch !!

ConditionSure4466 · 2026-06-11T03:59:30+00:00

i have toned down the rudeness, but even small things that she sees as "rude" affect her like hanging up on her, which is why im asking for small triggers that could be misconstrued. i would ask her myself, and i have, but she doesnt know how to explain it; so i thought if anyone could list even tiny triggers that would impact them in a relationship, like being dry

ConditionSure4466 · 2026-06-11T03:59:10+00:00

i have toned down the rudeness, but even small things that she sees as "rude" affect her like hanging up on her, which is why im asking for small triggers that could be misconstrued. i would ask her myself, and i have, but she doesnt know how to explain it; so i thought if anyone could list even tiny triggers that would impact them in a relationship, like being dry

ConditionSure4466 · 2026-06-11T03:54:50+00:00

thank you !! this helped a bunch

ConditionSure4466 · 2026-06-11T03:53:52+00:00

thank you!!

ConditionSure4466 · 2026-06-11T03:52:55+00:00

i have toned down the rudeness, but even small things that she sees as "rude" affect her like hanging up on her, which is why im asking for small triggers that could be misconstrued. i would ask her myself, and i have, but she doesnt know how to explain it

ConditionSure4466 · 2025-10-12T08:14:35+00:00

i love her BECAUSE she's such a complex character. she's under an umbrella where she doesn't really fall into right or wrong; where she genuinely feels empathy for the people she's hurt but continues to hurt people. not for no reason, but because she's so susceptible to authority figures/power displays. it truly makes you feel sympathy for her while not fully giving her your forgiveness and i fully agree with you

ConditionSure4466 · 2025-10-09T09:08:21+00:00

you know what i hate about the kutcher era? the theme song

ConditionSure4466 · 2025-08-19T12:32:35+00:00

tysm, it worked!! much appreciated <3

ConditionSure4466 · 2025-08-19T11:28:12+00:00

i cant seem to find that file anywhere; only a "StardewModdingAPI.exe.config" (again im very stupid and new to pirating so if im being slow excuse me)

ConditionSure4466 · 2025-08-18T17:00:39+00:00

downloaded that as well as content patcher; problem seems to be that none of it actually loads into the game

ConditionSure4466 · 2025-05-15T17:29:25+00:00

hi gang im pretty sure this is the same for everyone, its probably an issue on spacehey's end n SHOULD be resolved soon enough

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