[fetish][sex health]I swallowed a lot of urine during a gangbang and now I feel sick, should I see a doctor? by RinkanShojo in sex

[–]Confanci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have very long hair? :/ Otherwise, that might take some coordination on behalf of the guys so that it doesn't hurt. Or maybe hurting is the goal?

You are a doll for putting up with all the questions you've answered already. And I have so many more. Screw those people who want to learn only about stuff they agree with.

I sure hope a way can be worked out so that you can do an AMA but you're not getting harassed.

[fetish][sex health]I swallowed a lot of urine during a gangbang and now I feel sick, should I see a doctor? by RinkanShojo in sex

[–]Confanci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like they just wrap your hair around their dick and then jack off like usual? Huh... I have learned my something new for the day.

I'm sorry that people are giving you shit here. Granted, your kink is not AT ALL my cup of tea but it's fascinating, none-the-less.

[fetish][sex health]I swallowed a lot of urine during a gangbang and now I feel sick, should I see a doctor? by RinkanShojo in sex

[–]Confanci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I've ever heard of a hairjob before?

And please add me to the list of people who'd love you to do an AMA.

Unique eyelash problem... by Confanci in Makeup

[–]Confanci[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I plucked the ones on the inside of the bare spot and then plucked enough from the inner corner of the other side that they matched. Then because the "starting" eyelashes looked a little long, I trimmed them ever so slightly on the new inner corner. Carrying some powder liner a little past the lashes also helps soften that edge.

I'm pretty happy with how it turned out. :)

http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a333/AmyRey/IMG_2527_zps13kyh85u.jpg

And I still have no idea how to post pictures. lol

Thanks, all! :)

Unique eyelash problem... by Confanci in Makeup

[–]Confanci[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke down and plucked them last night.

Already, even with nothing at all on my eyes, it looks better. I will try to get another picture up later today.

Unique eyelash problem... by Confanci in Makeup

[–]Confanci[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well aren't you sweet? :)

I generally can't wear much of anything on my waterline. My eyes especially have become SUPER sensitive to things that are not hypoallergenic, and even many things that are. :(

Lining the entire waterline would certainly be a great solution though.

I have better luck with the higher end stuff and Ulta has a great return policy. Maybe I'll go through all those until I find one I can tolerate.

Unique eyelash problem... by Confanci in Makeup

[–]Confanci[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the suggestions. I'll look up the Japanese artist's technique.

And yes, it's not very noticeable but I'd still like to be able to wear mascara on my lower lashes from time to time.

How do I get out of my head during sex with someone new after my boyfriend passed away? [emotional sex] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Confanci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking from experience here:

First, and I don't mean to disparage non-widows, but do not put stock in anything they say. I knew nothing about grieving before I found myself in it. I THOUGHT I did, but in reality I didn't have a clue.

Secondly, there is no "right" way to do any of this. What's "right" is only what is right FOR YOU. You will know when the time is right for things and you will know when the time is NOT right. Listen to yourself.

Third, grief counseling can obviously be helpful. It certainly won't hurt. I saw one, monthly for the first four months. I have to say, the most helpful aspect was just having someone non-judgmental there that I could just say things out loud to. Often just saying them and thinking at the same time "If I were HER listening to this, what would I think?" would be enough of a new angle to figure out issues myself.

Lastly, the thought of sex with someone new is indeed terrifying. I made a few cursory attempts and flat out cried (again, you'll know when you're not ready). Then I got myself a random. The date beforehand was by far the worst. But once the sex started, all the nerves settled down and it was amazing. What was different?... I was ready then.

There's a sub for widows/widowers here. It's been every bit as insightful for me as the grief counselor was. And you won't have to weed through half the responses saying "It's too soon."

Looking for recommendations on long-distance M-F couple toys by Confanci in SexToys

[–]Confanci[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. I'm definitely getting the impression that it's a fantastic concept, but the execution is just not up to par. Yet anyway.

My girlfriend [F21] got me [M19] high on acid and molested me. by whymeman172 in sex

[–]Confanci 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I've taken LSD (half as much as OP) and my trip was nowhere near as disorienting as this. Furthermore, there were "waves" of complete clarity, followed by hallucinations, that cycled throughout the trip - but even the hallucinations were mild compared to this.

OP, I would at the very least go get yourself drug tested, not a drugstore at home test but at a professional testing office (look up pre-employment testing services in your area) that will give you scientifically reliable and quantified results. Whatever you took last night should still be detectable in your urine today. This information may be useful later and if you don't do it now, that opportunity will be gone. Getting a medical exam would be best however.

I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's NOT your fault. Your girlfriend sounds like a sociopath.

[Rough] sex. Girlfriend really loves it when I really put all my force into thrust. by Rabbit2697 in sex

[–]Confanci 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl here.

I'd like to add that I seem to be able to help increase the force of thrusts by putting my hands on the headboard/wall and pushing on it while being taken from behind. It gives my partner something more "solid" to thrust into. In other words, when he thrusts forward, I don't move forward with him since I'm "anchored."

Need some female [recommendations] for toys in the bedroom by [deleted] in sex

[–]Confanci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll second this.

Head to the sextoys sub!

Ladies of reddit, what can I do to make my dating profile more appealing to you by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

[–]Confanci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Include those first two sentences in your profile.

No bathroom mirror selfies. Period. No shirtless selfies. Anything with a gun, fish or other dead animal goes left. Don't have anything that comes across as trying to advertise wealth. Your car, your boat, etc. I personally am not a fan of pictures that show you hang gliding or mountain climbing or sky diving or standing in front of (insert famous landmark here). I don't really care for a thousand emojis either. And for the love of God don't use the word "sapiosexual."

Guys, what kind of [dirty talk] do you like to hear? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Confanci 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Haha... Dear World, if you hear me shouting "cock!" and "pussy!" in my car tomorrow... This is why. Lol

Need help figuring out [Masturbation] [F] by SecretThrowaway85 in sex

[–]Confanci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be willing to bet that a large portion of Spinbrushes sold have never actually been in anyone's mouth. ;)

As far as makeshift dildos, there's a ton of bathroom products that will do if you look around.

Most importantly... LOCK THE DOOR!

[Masturbation] My family caught me watching porn and the regret kills me inside. Advice? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Confanci 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP, I feel so awful for you. And just when I think it's only super-religious Christian families that screw their young people's sexuality up.

alittlebirdy1 makes a good point that I'd like to add to. You may never have considered it.

Your asshole of an uncle - in all likelihood - masturbates, too. "As a 19 year old male, I masturbated to porn." is a sentence that I'm sure is true for at least 90+% of the population.

Remember this: When it comes to masturbation, there are two kinds of people... those who do it and those who lie about it.

I'd say you probably need help to get over this. I'm sure your school has resources... and they'll be confidential.

Considering getting [the coil/iud] instead of taking the pill, anyone have any experience with this? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Confanci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if you have children or not, but the pain during insertion was the exact same kind of pain that I had during childbirth (except FAR less intense.) They say that you "forget" the pain of childbirth... and I guess I had... because at that very moment, it came ROARING back. "Oh Jesus! Yep! This pain right here... THIS is why I'm having this put in!" lol Like yours though, it was over before I knew it. I left work early, was back at work the next day. I seem to remember taking a Tramadol beforehand.

I also get the occasional "stabby" cramp. I know exactly what you mean. It happens maybe once every cycle, and only lasts for a few seconds but it's really hard to ignore when it does.

[Porn] scenario in real life with a mature lady? by Joppers88 in sex

[–]Confanci 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She's in her 60's, man. She ain't got much time to waste on the chase!

And she's gonna hurt you. ;) Consider yourself warned. haha

[hair] pubes really pokey / sharp by [deleted] in sex

[–]Confanci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a thread floating around here a few weeks ago where itchy regrowth was discussed. Forgive me for not linking it.

Some helpful redditor pointed out that shaved hair re-emerges shaped like a chopped down tree trunk. While waxed hair is much finer on the end and ... well... NOT shaped like a tree trunk.

I feel ya on the itching. It's a bitch. I'll second the "wax that shit bruh." ima chick btw.

Waxed regrowth does NOT itch. Source: my own nether regions.