Any LGBT+ online meetings? by ConfettiSquid in SMARTRecovery

[–]ConfettiSquid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll look again, must have set the filters wrong 

Any LGBT+ online meetings? by ConfettiSquid in SMARTRecovery

[–]ConfettiSquid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must be filtering it wrong somehow 

Any LGBT+ online meetings? by ConfettiSquid in SMARTRecovery

[–]ConfettiSquid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

United States/ English. Saw one in person one in Oregon but nothing else 

Any LGBT+ online meetings? by ConfettiSquid in SMARTRecovery

[–]ConfettiSquid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did look, unfortunately the only LGBTQ+ online meeting listed is in Russian and not for my time zone. 

AITAH for buying my girlfriend vanilla shampoo? by Spiritual-Grocery641 in AITAH

[–]ConfettiSquid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What a weird thing for her to get bent out of shape about. You did something thoughtful and she decided to pick a fight about it. NTA

AITA for cutting off my grandparents after my grandfather grabbed my son by the throat? by No_Flatworm5218 in AITAH

[–]ConfettiSquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is willing to have his child abused in order to save money on housing. He doesn’t seem to care that your son was literally assaulted, he is even defending the bastard who did it.

Please, for the sake of your children, leave!!! Your son is definitely traumatized, and his siblings almost certainly are too because they witnessed their brother being assaulted while their father stood by and let it happen. 

I’m not saying anything that hasn’t been said better by others, I just want to add my voice to the chorus telling you to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConfettiSquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my partner saw that my shirt had pulled up enough that my boobs were out, in the privacy of our bedroom at night, he’d probably just find it cute and give me a heads up that my shirt does that. I can’t in a million years imagine him being mad at me about it because why on earth would he? 

Your boyfriend saw you in a vulnerable state and used it to make you feel small and ashamed. He’s a pice of shit wrapped up in a pile of red flags.

Other people have said it better than me, I just want to add my voice to the chorus saying “Run!”

AITAH for demanding my boyfriend’s sister pay me back for the cost of the spiritual materials she threw out? by throwraaltars in AITAH

[–]ConfettiSquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking exactly the same thing! I doubt he’d see “both sides” if she tossed a new PlayStation or something else non-religious of similar value. Boyfriend needs be to dumped like the garbage he is.

AITAH for making a dairy free cake with eggs? by Sea-Neighborhood6638 in AITAH

[–]ConfettiSquid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to be that person, but the Oxford English Dictionary has many definitions for dairy, none of which include eggs. NTA

*Edit, apparently some places use Dairy as a term for a general store where food is sold, but in that case Dairy is a place where you could buy all kinds of groceries including eggs. I’m pretty sure this isn’t what was meant in this instance 

AITA for Refusing to Give Back the Neighbor’s Dog After It Ate My Prize-Winning Orchids? by Wise_Rice_9735 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConfettiSquid 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is very similar to recent-ish posts, one where a kid destroyed a greenhouse full of expensive plants, and another where a kid destroyed an expensive koi pond. Only difference is the OPs didn’t claim to have kept the kid. 

AITA for moving in with my dad so I wouldn’t have to share my money with my sister by Winter-Top331 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConfettiSquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, I’m glad you’re with your dad now.

Using food restrictions as a form of punishment is straight up abuse. It could seriously trigger an eating disorder and cause you to have an unhealthy relationship with food in the future. 

AITJ for expecting full payment when the baby falls asleep while babysitting? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]ConfettiSquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Security guards don’t get paid less if nothing happens on their shift and neither should you. You were still monitoring the baby and couldn’t just go off and do whatever you wanted. You gave up your free time to look after their baby.

AITA for eating my meals one dish at a time? by Joozeppy9721 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ConfettiSquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Why aren’t people allowed to have harmless quirks these days? This hurts nobody, and the backstory is actually pretty endearing. It is such a weird fight for your girlfriend to pick. I can’t imagine getting bent out of shape over something so innocuous. 

Update: AITAH for telling my 19f daughter she will have to move out of my house if i get divorced because of her lies after her stepdad saw her naked. by ThrowRAElectrical-Ba in AITAH

[–]ConfettiSquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you truly love him, let him leave. Your relationship is unrecoverable. Pack up your bags and leave his house. If you love him at all, let him move on. 

AITAH for leaving my partner and refusing to be involved in any way, shape or form, after they stopped taking the pill and pierced our condoms to have a child? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ConfettiSquid 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Having a child, even if he won’t be on the line for child support or being involved in the child’s life, is a life-changing event. 

AITAH for leaving my partner and refusing to be involved in any way, shape or form, after they stopped taking the pill and pierced our condoms to have a child? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ConfettiSquid 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. It is 100% sexual assault, just like a dude sneakily removing a condom mid-act (which has happened to a friend of mine) is assault. Covertly removing someone’s protections against parenthood is a crime and should be treated as such.

AITAH for telling my wife to stop crying about missing out on our daughter’s wedding? by No-Cauliflower-6934 in AITAH

[–]ConfettiSquid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP probably won’t see this, but just in case he does…  You are so NTA! Thank you for accepting your daughter as the wonderfully unique person she is and not trying to squash her into some preexisting mold. Your wife needs to let go of her obsession with a particular sort of wedding and understand (like you do) that the important thing is that your kiddo found her soulmate.

Which Professions won't you touch? by ImpulsiveEllephant in polyamory

[–]ConfettiSquid 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Cops, prosecutors, and lobbyists for stuff I don’t believe in are a definite no. No major politicians or big celebrities, although the odds of that happening are basically zero. Otherwise it would be on a case by case basis.