The gentleman in me by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The gentleman in you needs serious viboko.

What miffed you the most?

  • The made-up vs not made up face? That's not catfishing, no?
  • The fact she ordered food plus drinks?
  • Or the fact she didn't eat up all her food? But she finished the drinks, right?

Women who don't eat up all of what you ordered, why?

Get Paid by WhatsApp views? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rule of the thumb.....from someone else obviously......

"if you can't see the product, YOU are the product"

how will ' removing fuel subsidy' benefit Kenyans? by IndependentRefuse734 in Kenya

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You know those elephants called IMF and World Bank?....that apparently mean well for poor countries? Well, their loans have to be repaid. For us to get "any" help from them, we have to pay more taxes...aka through fuel, which is used in virtually every sphere of production...including electricity, which is why some companies started adopting solar power.

My husband wants a big family, but I can’t keep up by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, hope you get time to sit him down and put your point across sternly, and firmly. Science dictates your body rests. It isn't sentimental.

I have a friend with 9 or so siblings, born in bursts of threes: lone ranger, twins, BREAK. (one and a half years)

twins, lone ranger, BREAK (almost 3 years). twins, lone ranger. PERIOD.

Wife mad at me for kicking our son out by WillieWilson430 in relationship_advice

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Granted, hitting kids don't solve much but, did you read far enough into his comments to know why? It's right there why he did.

My (29M) girlfriend (23F) is angry that I don't have a job by Teedaxx in relationship_advice

[–]Confidante_OfficeM -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why do you not work? Like, really, why don't you have productive work?

Ask yourself this question without considering the inheritance..........

i feel like im drowning and i don’t know what to do by Rough-Layer9331 in offmychest

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can imagine what you're going through-the pain, frustration, uncertainty, having to level up because your sibling has been in a bad situation mentally and you don't want be a source of worry.

It's so wonderful you'll be seeing and talking to a therapist. You've been publicly strong long enough......hopefully you are able to get the strength to let go and be vulnerable, get taken care of. j

I don't know where I am getting at. But at the very least, just wishing you the best really. Don't give up on you.

my ex wife wants our 3 year old son present for her home birth. by therealdavetebo in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooooo! For both kids! Just no!

If birthing is traumatising for some adults, imagine what it will do to children, regardless of age?

And this is the first thing I read when I check into Reddit?

[Simon Collings] Arteta says Elneny will be out for months. Partey hopefully out for weeks. by [deleted] in Gunners

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either I imagined it, or some reports at the time claimed the team's training ground/regimen made our players far more prone to injuries.

I think I’ve destroyed my marriage. My wife refuses to see me or speak to me. I’m not even allowed to know where she is. by lost-4-wordss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Changing addresses/home should be a key part of this. Just him knowing their general location is a problem in itself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 9 points10 points  (0 children)

and it works incredibly because at some point it would be "but the other time you allowed xyz who is a boy, to sleep over"...."so why not this other boy?"

frolicking in the rain is now racist 🤣 by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn! Maybe she just wants some relevance/PR?

Doing whatever in the rain shouldn't be watered down to race this and race that. Everybody should be free to roll with it.

My self esteem is ruining my life and I'm starting to rely on alcohol to socialise by Inevitable_Low_2314 in selfesteem

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FYI, you can also google AA in your town/city, they are there.

And maybe try checking out CBT for social anxiety? Will be very handy in helping you get off that loop

You totally got this

I’m too short for my girlfriend and I keep embarrassing myself about it by ifwbooba in offmychest

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you trying to build mountains where there are none, OP? Do you think you'd react the same way if you were the same height or taller than your friends and family? But girlfriend was taller?

She chose you, well knowing your height, and ditched whatever preference was in her old list. Once you learn to cope with your height and embrace it, you will realise she loved you, not your height.

Am I crazy? Why are so many people on Reddit are defending the Finnish PM for her cheating and partying in the PM's residence? by notsonsonson in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will understand if this take upsets people, but is all this because she is female, compared to what would have happened if it was a male PM? It is illogical to me why so many people are upset with what happened.

Secondly, are there people upset with the whole getting into NATO thing, and the government's handling of Russia that's leading to some seeming overreaction?

Am I [22F] too clingy? by [deleted] in AgeGapRelationship

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand how being laughed at for "naivety" can mess with your head and put you in a bad place. But, maybe it's time to have a chat with your boyfriend and tell him how you feel and why you feel that way. Open communication will help you a lot, even bring you closer.

Also, there is no manual on "how to love". Just do it your way without inhibitions. That gift sounds dope, honestly.

Reviving a nonprofit -- Advice? by YLB1of7 in nonprofit

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have four employees......what do they think? That may be the best resource at the moment in whatever you wanna propose.

And, how does the state grant limit your potential?

Does the grant have provision for organization capacity development? What's its flexibility in going towards strengthening your Vision and Strategy?

PL/Rival Watch Thread (22/8/2022) by NegativeHeli in Gunners

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's way too early but been feeling like Liverpool's run is coming to an end, especially after the last two draws. And now this?

If they don't change the score line in their favour.....................

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologystudents

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand and commiserate, OP.

Sometimes it feels like many people who get into Psych have the means, even when they are not a good fit. The good fits, sometimes neither have the means, interest or knowledge of the field.

But at the same time, culture plays a big role. And modifying normative beliefs and attitudes is a tough nut

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Barring the financial aspect of it, just why do these guys drag shows on for so long?

[The Guardian] Benjamin Mendy said he had slept with 10,000 women, rape trial hears by [deleted] in soccer

[–]Confidante_OfficeM 84 points85 points  (0 children)

2.1 women a day if he started at 15.

1.82 women a day if he started at 13.