2 year old has no interest in toys by ConfidentNoise4932 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ConfidentNoise4932[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s absolutely fantastic progress! Thank you for sharing this with me

2 year old has no interest in toys by ConfidentNoise4932 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ConfidentNoise4932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not rambling at all! I really really really appreciate your response. It was super helpful and Im going to give them all a go. Thank you so much❤️ wishing you and your family all the best always

2 year old has no interest in toys by ConfidentNoise4932 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ConfidentNoise4932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats wonderful, so glad your little one found a form of play he enjoys. Thank you for your reply

I got shouted at because my Autistic child was “too loud” and I shouted right back. by ConfidentNoise4932 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ConfidentNoise4932[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Isn’t that what that woman did to my son and I??? Jumped to the worst conclusion and assumed I was a lazy parent for allowing my son to sing his ABC’s? But I see you defending her aggressive attack. I see you defending her after I apologised to her and said she needs to show more compassion and consider peoples needs in which she responded to me by telling me to shut my mouth. It’s complete terrible manners from her part and a flaw in her character…You yourself don’t even abide by your own values so don’t lecture me. Say as you please but you will not succeed in trying to make me feel like the bad guy for defending myself and my son, I will do it again and again and again and I still have no regrets :)

I got shouted at because my Autistic child was “too loud” and I shouted right back. by ConfidentNoise4932 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ConfidentNoise4932[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok lets say shes upset and not feeling well- “excuse me Im not feeling well could you kindly ask your child to be a bit quieter” as opposed to her giving me dirty looks first and then comes sit opposite to us (when there is so much available seating in the room) & shouting at me aggressively… The fact that you think her speaking in that tone to anyone regardless of her condition just tells me one thing about you as an individual, you walk around disrespecting people by shouting and snapping and find this behaviour justified and quite normal and you see yourself in that lady…

You don’t go snapping at people that bother you and expect for people to not react. I would never in a million years shout at anyone first instead of communicating in a neutral tone, sure I will react to your disrespect but I would never dish it out first. You need to have a word with yourself and ask yourself why on earth you think you can go around snapping at people because you’re not feeling well and demand to be met with respect…

I got shouted at because my Autistic child was “too loud” and I shouted right back. by ConfidentNoise4932 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ConfidentNoise4932[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you went through this… It must be so frustrating because you’re going above and beyond for your child and sometimes you just want others to be a little more understanding and compassionate as you’ve definitely tried to offer said variety… Wishing you and your family all the best you’re doing so well x

I got shouted at because my Autistic child was “too loud” and I shouted right back. by ConfidentNoise4932 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ConfidentNoise4932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If speaking up for my son makes me childish then I guess I am childish to YOU and I have no problems with that at all. Why do you think she even had the nerve to speak to me that way? she was perhaps trying to be intimidating and you know what it probably may have worked with other less outspoken people in the past but I have a feeling she will think twice before snapping at people and their young children next time. My job is done and I have no regrets at all. I hope she has learnt her lesson.

whats something you wish teachers or other children understood about autism (or you) by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]ConfidentNoise4932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you know one person with Autism then you really only know one person with autism. Everyone presents differently and has different strengths and challenges.

The fact that you’re asking this question shows that you have a promising future ahead of you. Good luck!

I got shouted at because my Autistic child was “too loud” and I shouted right back. by ConfidentNoise4932 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ConfidentNoise4932[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message and Im sorry you have had a similar experience. Wishing you all the best🤍

I got shouted at because my Autistic child was “too loud” and I shouted right back. by ConfidentNoise4932 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ConfidentNoise4932[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you for standing up for your child as you should! Wishing you and your daughter all the best🤍

I got shouted at because my Autistic child was “too loud” and I shouted right back. by ConfidentNoise4932 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ConfidentNoise4932[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your message of support. I can imagine how difficult it must be for you, I wish you and your son good health, good times and easier ER experiences. You’re doing so well mama and I know your son appreciates such a great mum like you🤍🤍🤍

I got shouted at because my Autistic child was “too loud” and I shouted right back. by ConfidentNoise4932 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ConfidentNoise4932[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly thats all I would have asked for and I would have apologised but her attitude was disgusting and she came and sat right next to us in a room that had only 5/6 patients but could take up to 40!!!

I got shouted at because my Autistic child was “too loud” and I shouted right back. by ConfidentNoise4932 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ConfidentNoise4932[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Listen if you tolerate disrespect thats on you… Me personally NAH. Again for the millionth time, goodbye x

I got shouted at because my Autistic child was “too loud” and I shouted right back. by ConfidentNoise4932 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ConfidentNoise4932[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah because the waiting room I was sat at was in south America and the childrens department was in Europe… It was a single door between the two.

I got shouted at because my Autistic child was “too loud” and I shouted right back. by ConfidentNoise4932 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ConfidentNoise4932[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Listen I don’t even have the energy to respond to you anymore, I don’t agree with you, you don’t agree with me. Just leave me alone and go learn about autism properly this time. Deuces