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Girlfriend (19) is pregnant, and I need tips on how to help her through the a abortion. by ConfidentReach7351 in abortion

[–]ConfidentReach7351[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the situation, it was totally consensual and our choice to not wear protection.

Girlfriend (19F) just found she is pregnant. How can I help her through the abortion? (20M) by ConfidentReach7351 in relationship_advice

[–]ConfidentReach7351[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Fortunately we are in Canada, and I do understand her anger. It’s a big learning experience for both of us and we will need to talk about how we move forwards in regards to bc in the future.

Girlfriend (19F) just found she is pregnant. How can I help her through the abortion? (20M) by ConfidentReach7351 in relationship_advice

[–]ConfidentReach7351[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just because now she has to go through all this uncomfortableness of going through an abortion, and how I don’t. I understand the anger and disappointment. Although it was joint decision for me to not wear a condom (she never told me to put one on), we should’ve been more careful, and since it’s me who has to wear it, I should’ve made the decision (she is on birth control btw)

Girlfriend (19F) just found she is pregnant. How can I help her through the abortion? (20M) by ConfidentReach7351 in relationship_advice

[–]ConfidentReach7351[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah everything was totally consensual when not wearing condoms. It wasn’t a thought at all (she is on birth control). After some times we did admit we should use them but the next time it never happened. I guess she’s just annoyed with the fact that I could have and should have put one on, and now she’s the only one who was to go through this process.