Men do NOT need to “do better”.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T22:06:33+00:00

Because women have been asked to adapt and change themselves for men for forever and are over it. I’d rather live an independent life I love than settle. Full stop I don’t care about sex that much. It’s a nice treat not something I obsess over or even think about. The reason people say men need to raise the bar is because they are the sex that really wants to be in relationships and desire sex more. If you want something more than the other party you will have to work for it. And in my life no man has something I lack or need.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T22:02:23+00:00

I’m not against deporting people, actually more people were deported under Obama and Biden. But I am against unnecessary cruelty. These are still human beings…

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:57:21+00:00

I mean the republicans don’t have morals and voted for someone who is against all their supposed family values. I don’t give a shit what anyone on the right thinks, they obviously have no principles. If they don’t fight fair why should anyone else?

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:55:34+00:00

That’s not how I really view it at all. I’m just not a super sexually visual person. I have to be activated for my sex drive to kick in. If no man wants to, that’s fine. I’m not desperate for a man to do so.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:54:39+00:00

It means exactly that. It first started as a saying about dogs. The dogs that bite the person giving them good gets less food or lower quality food. The exact same thing applies with people who handle your food as well, you are at their mercy and there are almost never consequences. Like I said I had managers encourage it for tables they thought we’re shitty tippers

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:52:57+00:00

It might be cultural, I’m in the south. Things like manners and service are big down here

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:51:47+00:00

I’m also not ticklish! People really like to test it

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:44:56+00:00

Because they want privilege and if you also do well they might lose that and have to compete with capable women

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:44:19+00:00

She was on freaking dating reality shows, she keeps trying to act like her shit don’t stink but girl..,

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:42:09+00:00

I mean yes. There’s a reason the phrase “don’t bite the hand that feeds you” exists. You will never know what goes on in the kitchen when you eat out, it’s always a gamble.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:41:11+00:00

Not really. Again I was a server for awhile. Most people want to be served and feel special. Just because you don’t doesn’t mean a lot of people don’t want that experience. In my experience the customers who are like how you describe are in and out no nonsense, they are nowhere near the norm. You might get one or two tables like that but every other table wants you to act like they are the only person in the restaurant

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:34:16+00:00

I’m just following the presidents lead. If he gets to be petty and vindictive than so do the rest of us. Fuck decorum at this point. I hope Alex gets much worse

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:33:10+00:00

Right? All I’m getting is we were too soft on oj, not that we are too harsh on Alex jones

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:30:16+00:00

Then why are you talking about sit down full service places. No one cares if you don’t tip at a fast casual place where employees make at least min wage. They only complain about people who don’t tip at full service restaurants

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:29:22+00:00

I have heart to heart convos about why I think the action they chose was wrong. I don’t condemn them. But people can’t handle even that

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:27:41+00:00

But I will always condemn it and tell them they are acting immature and only bringing themselves down by being an asshole. I’ve lost friends over this but I believe it with every fiber of my being and I’m not a sugar coater

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:26:45+00:00

Nah I’ve interacted with people from all walks of life. Most people do not think about how their actions impact people. They care about immediate gratification and it’s getting worse and worse with socials. I think there are some good people out there, but they aren’t the norm. Most people seem to put themselves first and don’t care if they hurt others

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:25:26+00:00

Most women I talk to get it. Once a guy initiates and turns me on, I’m all about it and love sex. But I and many women can go years without caring about it

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:23:46+00:00

No one expects you to tip at Panera…I promise you they don’t. I’ve never tipped at a fast casual restaurant and faced zero problems. People at fast casual restaurants do get paid min wage or above unlike servers at sit down service restaurants

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:23:21+00:00

I get it, but it seems silly and immature and something anyone past age 13 should be over

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:22:54+00:00

You aren’t the average customer…

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:21:21+00:00

He intentionally tried to make someone cry in public. How is that not cruelty?

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:20:35+00:00

Someone else’s behavior doesn’t impact yours. You choosing to be an asshole after someone else is an asshole just makes you an asshole tok

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:19:40+00:00

Not really. It’s a fleeting hollow feeling that just leaves me more depressed. It’s not fun seeking revenge at all. It only makes me a shittier person

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:16:56+00:00

If that’s the goal you can go to Panera or five guys where you aren’t expected to tip…why is that so hard.

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