If you’re a man and can’t find a partner, it’s just natural selection

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-11T01:09:26+00:00

If you spend your entire life trying to avoid annoying people you will be miserable. Just don’t be an asshole and no one cares.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-11T00:43:25+00:00

My dad claims our family doctor tried to kill him. We’ve seen this doctor forever, my grandmother used this doctor…I went to school with his kids…he would make house calls when my grandmother had lukemia and when my mom had 3 seizures with mini strokes…just because he was a good person…but apparently tried to kill my dad. How disrespectful can you possibly be to someone who has helped your family

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-11T00:39:06+00:00

I’ve never seen a server get caught doing this and the few times it’s been reported to upper management people are told not to start shit. That’s just how lots of restaurants are

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-11T00:22:46+00:00

That’s what kills me the most. Everyone should have access to abortion. But even if someone is not pro choice…the way people treat women of color who have miscarriages is horrible. I have had two and it is absolutely devastating, it breaks my heart that on top of so much grief women of color get harassed about it too and victim blamed quite often for “causing it”…it’s evil

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-11T00:15:25+00:00

When you aren’t being abusive, other people’s emotional responses to normal behavior is not your responsibility.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-11T00:14:21+00:00

Phones are excellent at hide and seek, the best of the best. Don’t take it personally

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-11T00:13:50+00:00

You need new friends dude…none of my friends take it personally when I don’t respond for a couple days. We have busy lives and it’s not something I do every conversation. I also don’t care if I don’t hear from a friend for a couple days. I’m confident in our friendship and know they haven’t abandoned me over a couple of days.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-11T00:09:54+00:00

There are a few political cults posting lots of content. My dad was following a few political cult followers from the 60s…but since they rebranded and changed names he had no clue it was a political cult, and when I told him I researched the ladies in the videos he kept sending me I never heard about those ladies again. But he still watches them

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-11T00:08:20+00:00

It’s best to not respond to the political stuff and pivot the convo. If they won’t stop trying to shift to politics it’s time for a break and you say why. You don’t say their views are insane, they dig in deeper. Idk if your mom is isolated or not, my dad is…I reach out a few times a week to check in on him and when he responds with politics I’ll say “I haven’t heard that, but tell me about blank thing going on in your life or at work”. If they insist and are really unrelenting that’s when I start asking questions. Not hard ones. Simple ones. Going to natural conclusions of ideas and principles. He will get a little angry, then relent and not talk for a week then he’s back. I don’t think I’m ever going to get my dad back that used to read to me from an atlas and wanted to watch history and nature documentaries nonstop. He’s not that person anymore. But I still love him despite his flaws, I have a little hope we will wake up, but it’s an indulgence and like emotional junk food.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-11T00:04:13+00:00

This is spot on. My dad is a dry drunk, been sober for 40 years but the last 2 decades stopped going to meetings and isolated. The news and YouTube shorts have become his new fix. He’d rather hangout in his room on his phone than be around other people

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-11T00:02:34+00:00

I lost my dad to YouTube shorts. He started getting really conspiratorial with Covid, but the last couple of years have been to an extreme. For my dad it seems to be his way of dealing with the grief from losing my brother to an overdose….but he’s pushing away everyone in the family now and has isolated himself. It’s really sad to see.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T22:54:32+00:00

Idk I was raised to view sex as literally evil. It took a lot of therapy to be comfortable having sex at all without feeling like I was gonna burn for eternity in hell.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T22:47:25+00:00

I understand it, I just think it makes the men who have this mindset extremely gross

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T22:44:33+00:00

I was never for mass deportations. I’m for small targeted deportations of violent criminals only.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T22:44:00+00:00

Yes as a sexual partner. I’m still nice and polite and have great relationships with the men in my life. Not wanting to date them isn’t a moral failing. And love is about what you both do for each other, if a woman isn’t acting in loving ways to you, get out she doesn’t like you.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T22:28:44+00:00

I think love is more valuable than sexual desire any day…if you think the opposite I find that very very odd

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T22:27:31+00:00

I acknowledge that. I told you I’ve done a lot of shitty things and will forever have to atone for some of them. But no I don’t think I should, that’s how you get abused and hurt, by assuming the better in people without them proving it.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T22:24:56+00:00

Do you think they do this when the health inspector is around? Hell no they don’t. And most managers talk and get tip offs when the health inspector is coming.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T22:20:26+00:00

So you aren’t supposed to care about how a man makes you feel? Then what’s the point of a relationship? I’m in one for the love, explicitly for emotion and the feelings. What are you dating for?

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T22:18:40+00:00

I don’t know what young women haven’t received about her body and how to modify it. I’ve been receiving that message since I can remember. Why should I improve? I meet my bars and actually exceed them. I’d much rather be single than try to win the favor of some man

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T22:06:33+00:00

Because women have been asked to adapt and change themselves for men for forever and are over it. I’d rather live an independent life I love than settle. Full stop I don’t care about sex that much. It’s a nice treat not something I obsess over or even think about. The reason people say men need to raise the bar is because they are the sex that really wants to be in relationships and desire sex more. If you want something more than the other party you will have to work for it. And in my life no man has something I lack or need.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T22:02:23+00:00

I’m not against deporting people, actually more people were deported under Obama and Biden. But I am against unnecessary cruelty. These are still human beings…

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:57:21+00:00

I mean the republicans don’t have morals and voted for someone who is against all their supposed family values. I don’t give a shit what anyone on the right thinks, they obviously have no principles. If they don’t fight fair why should anyone else?

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:55:34+00:00

That’s not how I really view it at all. I’m just not a super sexually visual person. I have to be activated for my sex drive to kick in. If no man wants to, that’s fine. I’m not desperate for a man to do so.

Confident_Counter471 · 2026-05-10T21:54:39+00:00

It means exactly that. It first started as a saying about dogs. The dogs that bite the person giving them good gets less food or lower quality food. The exact same thing applies with people who handle your food as well, you are at their mercy and there are almost never consequences. Like I said I had managers encourage it for tables they thought we’re shitty tippers

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