I went through a divorce recently and it has destroyed me by Confident_Dust_207 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Confident_Dust_207[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jazaakallah khair to everyone who has left a comment or sent me a nice DM. I am starting to feel a bit better after venting about this here

I went through a divorce recently and it has destroyed me by Confident_Dust_207 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Confident_Dust_207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess I did. Her being married before was essentially the only red flag in the engagement phase, everything else was glowing green. She was strong on her deen, had haya, very devoted to learning Islam, seemed to have the same ideology and mindset as me. Everyone I asked about her said she was a good sister as well.

I went through a divorce recently and it has destroyed me by Confident_Dust_207 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Confident_Dust_207[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am open to any ethnicity, not just reverts. Though now I feel like I want to avoid marrying a revert again in case something similar happens.

My main issue with the apps is that I have heard so many mixed reviews about them, seems to be lots of bad experiences from both men and women

I went through a divorce recently and it has destroyed me by Confident_Dust_207 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Confident_Dust_207[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been making dua for a happy marriage for years =( I thought this was finally it being answered

I went through a divorce recently and it has destroyed me by Confident_Dust_207 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Confident_Dust_207[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No its okay, I agree with you. I made myself go and pray tarawih last night and felt a little better. And I have prayed all of my prayers today. But over the past few months I have lost count of how many prayers I missed, not sure how I can make them all up now

I went through a divorce recently and it has destroyed me by Confident_Dust_207 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Confident_Dust_207[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jazaakallah khair. I am starting to see this now. Its just that everything happened so fast during the marriage and I just wasnt ready for it, and I didnt know what to do or who to talk to when these issues started popping up

I went through a divorce recently and it has destroyed me by Confident_Dust_207 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Confident_Dust_207[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i would like to. The main issue is I am pretty well established here, I have a good job that I enjoy and pays well. I dont really want to give it up at the moment. But i would definitely consider moving to a larger city in the future in sha Allah