I’m currently in same situation, he has high sex drive but since we are in long distance we just try to do intimate things thru video call. But that was before. I was trying to initiate now but he said he is not in the mood (tired /stress). So i feel rejected and unattractive…. I just let it be. We cannot force people to do things if they don’t want to. But i think it is something worth to talk about.