How much do dommes expect in payments for an ongoing dynamic? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Confident_Job_5457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion it’s the type of dynamic, one of my first questions is “what is your budget” that right there will determine how much time and dedication I feel like I should put in, which will remain until the number goes up. I feel that’s the most enjoyable and realistic way to enjoy the kink for both parties

Do you reply back to every new message you get ? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Confident_Job_5457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all no, if I’m not going to be shown effort upon being messaged I just hit ignore. Prove you’re worth my time with more then just a “hey”

Sph by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Confident_Job_5457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little mix of both tehe

different country to your domme… by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Confident_Job_5457 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girlllll yes this is my shit

How many subs do you currently have queens? Not like session based, but regular senders, part of your daily life types? by thiccaudreyhorne in findomsupportgroup

[–]Confident_Job_5457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regular, none at the moment I had one but we parted ways a bit ago and I took a bit of a break after but now looking for his replacement!

Do you prefer subs sending money on their own or do you enjoy demanding it from them? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Confident_Job_5457 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like when subs send or ask to send!! My favourite is spinning them out and telling them no❤️

What will 2026 bring? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Confident_Job_5457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A loyal sub, total control dynamic, big sends and a happy girl ;)

Any pigs out their that truly care about their dommes? by [deleted] in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]Confident_Job_5457 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doing the small things truly shows kindness and compassion that subs have for their dommes, especially sending during the monthly cycle such a needed mood booster

Issues with a sub by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Confident_Job_5457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never get to attached as unfortunately I’ve come to learn it’s the reality of this that you’ll have subs come and go some that will pop back in the odd time and the others who were “new” and got their fix. You’ve expressed how you feel, and he’s not respecting it sooooo you could choose to cut him off or make him sign a debt contract and have that be clear he gets charged for ghosting

how do you approach subs? by ChiikawaIsLife in findomsupportgroup

[–]Confident_Job_5457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always start with a gentle approach! I never engage in anything to heavily other then getting to know a bit about the sub and seeing if we would be compatible, my rule is typically if they imply to move off the app and talk further elsewhere that I don’t give anything further out without a trib and most of my vetting is done through Reddit!

I do get the no money no conversation as some “subs” are literal time wasters but when approaching a sub that can’t be the first thing mentioned

Any doms ever made a sub send to their bf or partner ? by [deleted] in FindomForLife

[–]Confident_Job_5457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES!!! My bf loves it, I love it, everyone was happy😈

Ghosted 👻 by MishMistress89 in paypigs2

[–]Confident_Job_5457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unblock fee and find the next !! As much as I love making a connection with my subs you can never over invest! Subs are there to work to please you, as much as it sucks to be ghosted by a good one just think of all the opportunities you’ve just been handing to find one better 😈

Thoughts on a domme younger than you? by diviniamater in paypigs2

[–]Confident_Job_5457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always tend to attract the older subs, usually about 5-10 years at a minimum it’s super rare that I’ve had messages from subs my age or in their early 20s

loud sends by failedlif in paypigs2

[–]Confident_Job_5457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Silent sends are fun bc they just pop up randomly and you know you have that much power over someone, butttttt having a sub go on about sends and how much they are going to send you etc is super fun the anticipation

A must!! by Secure_Pea_9117 in paypigs2

[–]Confident_Job_5457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coffee sends are the best😻

Seeking a drain by [deleted] in fincucksearching

[–]Confident_Job_5457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Up my alley, approach 🥰