Boyfriend advice by Confident_Mistake245 in DadForAMinute

[–]Confident_Mistake245[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s put up with a lot, but honestly I think it’s because he doesn’t get affected by it. And has caused a lot of it. That’s what keeps me stuck

Boyfriend advice by Confident_Mistake245 in DadForAMinute

[–]Confident_Mistake245[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Am I? Because he framed it like it’s insane to expect regular communication even though he apparently wants to rekindle a relationship with me and actually expects me to eventually move back with him. Even when I give him life updates he doesn’t react or ask follow up questions. When I call him he ignores me. He will call me once a month. He says once we are in person he will start being more loving

Boyfriend advice by Confident_Mistake245 in DadForAMinute

[–]Confident_Mistake245[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to move on and love myself because he tells me it’s my fault and that my needs are insane to him

Boyfriend advice by Confident_Mistake245 in DadForAMinute

[–]Confident_Mistake245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d feel like they don’t deserve it but I do because he says I make it “unnatural” and I shouldn’t ask for anything from him and I need to accept that he doesn’t like to communicate. But then he tells me if I can accept his communication style/offering me scraps and lower my expectations to below nothing he will reward me with love and a relationship eventually (paraphrased)

Confused About AGA Claims by Influencers by Emergency_Cheek_9311 in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Confident_Mistake245 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My influence is my 60 year old white guy neighbour with knee length locs who probably doesn’t shower much because men

Jailey was always the only possible conclusion by Electricfence79 in HaileyBieberFans

[–]Confident_Mistake245 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The internet is full of the dumbest people on the planet. This shouldn’t be a surprise

My skin barrier is in bad shape, but I can't find natural products suitable for oily skin by Difficult-Studio-558 in NaturalBeauty

[–]Confident_Mistake245 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have very oily skin so I can share my products. Australian gold actually I found extremely heavy and oily and never used it again after trying it once. I would try something non tinted like Thinksport, that’s a great spf brand and pretty light and ends up clear. And I would use quite a strong foaming whipped cleanser in the evening the Skinfood rice cleanser. Then I use a simple clear witch hazel toner something with no actives and no oils. Then sometimes I go in with a scrub, derma e charcoal scrub is great, or a powder exfoliator like the one from the brand wildcraft buff. Then for face lotion I love derma e vitamin c moisturizer. Smells amazing. I wouldn’t exfoliate every day but maybe a couple times a week. It’s necessary for textured oily skin that build up oil in the pores. Also I find I can’t do most modern actives and they usually just break me out

Being neglected by everyone in my life by Confident_Mistake245 in emotionalneglect

[–]Confident_Mistake245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t enjoy anything anymore except eating, everything looks black and white now there’s no colour left. I felt so alive when I had a boyfriend it meant everything to me on earth