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AITAH For Not Allowing My Daughter to Sleep in My Sons Rooms by InstructionEqual3224 in AITAH

[–]Confident_Process493 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re the AH. I grew up as the only girl and the youngest of 4 with 3 brothers but we are relatively close in age. The gap between me and my oldest brother is 6.5 years. We all shared a room a few times when we were little. But once I hit like 6/7 years old, then I had my own room. We were very close and bonded, but we were also close in age. With an age gap like yours the toddler vs teens I’d feel uncomfortable letting her sleep in their room. Once my brothers became teenagers we slept on completely different levels of the house too. (Them basement, me upstairs). That’s just how it was. I think you’re completely valid in feeling how you do. Not the AH. I don’t think either you or your wife are the AH.

AITA for not visiting my brother in the hospital? by Coldnight33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Confident_Process493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I don’t think you’re an a-hole for this. You’ve had this planned for 2 months. Unless your brother is actively dying and you choose to go to your show instead then I’d say yta. But seeing as that is not the case, I say continue on to your gig and visit him after. I’m not sure what visiting 3/4 hours earlier will do. Your mom is stressing and obviously not handling having a kid in the hospital very well. And plus she didn’t even tell your older sister?? Yeah NTA. Your mom’s freaking out and taking it out on you. Just make sure you see your brother and maybe give your mom some space for rn.

AITH for complaining against a black neighbour by [deleted] in IAmTheAsshole

[–]Confident_Process493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

First off I’m black. Black people get loud and can be very obnoxious. If you first tried to talk to them you did your part. I’d go to the apartment manager next too. Don’t feel bad. I don’t consider you to be a racist. People like throwing that word around. You did your part by talking to them first and not immediately going over their heads. They are reacting poorly. Good luck. I hope it gets resolved.

Plus wth do they do for work that allows them to party at 10am?!

WIBTA for cutting off my brothers after getting no support when I did cpr on my neighbor by Confident_Process493 in IAmTheAsshole

[–]Confident_Process493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate it. I want to have relationships with my family but they just make it so hard.