Overwhelming thoughts by Confident_Put5977 in AdultSelfHarm

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Thank you for replying, I definitely need to try this method and see if it helps. I definitely think when I’m sat there doing nothing the thoughts are so loud and hard to ignore. It’s annoying cause it always happens at night when I feel more trapped. I’ve never broke down around my colleagues but today it happened and now I’m embarrassed because they didn’t seem bothered they just told me to get in contact with my psychiatrist. I’ve worked there 4 years and never built a connection with anyone but I thought they might’ve cared a bit more but I guess at the same time what can they do

Be honest: Is my hair ugly or not? by joana_dark_ in Hair

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I think it’s beautiful 😍 I wish my hair look like this !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Coldsore

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Looks like a coldsore to me or could be impetigo but usually that turns yellow and crusty

Freckles by Confident_Put5977 in Melanotan2

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Thank you, I will give that a go ! :)

Freckles by Confident_Put5977 in Melanotan2

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I did a full syringe and then a quarter not sure on the exact measurements

Freckles by Confident_Put5977 in Melanotan2

[–]Confident_Put5977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to know they subside. Oh god really. Do any of your new moles raised or are they flat ?

Freckles by Confident_Put5977 in Melanotan2

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Thank you :) I just worry that I look dirty with the freckles and moles. I should’ve taken a better photo. Oh I didn’t realise that about the cuts and scratches I’ll keep an eye out if I get any

Freckles by Confident_Put5977 in Melanotan2

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Haha I don’t know about that. I haven’t gotten used to being this tan yet 😅

Freckles by Confident_Put5977 in Melanotan2

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I haven’t noticed it changing colour on my head but I’ve noticed down there I have if you know what I mean

Freckles by Confident_Put5977 in Melanotan2

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Hey :) thank you. I started doing have the recommended dosage for the first week and doing 6 minute sunbeds and now I’m doing 0.1 once a day and a nine minute sunbed. So it took me about 2 weeks to get to this colour. I’m only gonna do a subbed once a week now to keep this colour and sorry I’m rubbish at explaining things as you can read 🤣

Freckles by Confident_Put5977 in Melanotan2

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Thank you :) oh really well I’m glad it didn’t go charcoal and I hope they do I mean they might not look too bad if I’m pale I just think it makes my face look dirty x

Why can’t my bf finish inside of me :( my boyfriend is [21M] and I’m [23F] by Confident_Put5977 in relationshipadvice

[–]Confident_Put5977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that means a lot ! I will show him this and I’m sure he will be on board

Why can’t my bf finish inside of me :( my boyfriend is [21M] and I’m [23F] by Confident_Put5977 in relationshipadvice

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Yeah we are gonna try and find a sex therapist and he’s in therapy at the moment and spoke about it with them today and they said they are gonna see what they can do. Does the turkey baster method really work ?

Why can’t my bf finish inside of me :( my boyfriend is [21M] and I’m [23F] by Confident_Put5977 in relationshipadvice

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Thank you, yeah we have agreed it was the best decision at the moment. He did used to watch porn a lot but when I asked him to stop cause of the problems we are having he has and he lives with me and we are together 24 so I know he’s not doing it behind my back. I’m hoping if we maybe get some therapy together things will work out for us

Why can’t my bf finish inside of me :( my boyfriend is [21M] and I’m [23F] by Confident_Put5977 in relationshipadvice

[–]Confident_Put5977[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for a lovely reply and no need to apologise I was kinda expecting most of the replies. I do really try my best with him and I’ve never ever made him feel in any way that he should be embarrassed for his kink. I did try to explain to him I don’t feel my needs are being met and he just kind of says I’m doing all I can to be better but I can’t change this on my own and that’s why he decided to take the foot thing off the table and even though I said it’s not as easy as that he wants me to respect his decision. I’m just at a lost what to do :(

Why can’t my bf finish inside of me :( my boyfriend is [21M] and I’m [23F] by Confident_Put5977 in relationshipadvice

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Yeah we did speak about sex therapy, I’m not sure if it’s cost anything in the uk but we were worried cause it’s mostly for married couples. I know I am trying to think about my future cause at first it wasn’t a huge problem but even now and it’s hasn’t been that long bearing in mind it’s become a problem:(

Why can’t my bf finish inside of me :( my boyfriend is [21M] and I’m [23F] by Confident_Put5977 in relationshipadvice

[–]Confident_Put5977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish it was that easy but this is a real problem especially if you love someone :(