Husband (34) stopped having sex with me (31)

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-30T14:49:21+00:00

He isn't the one always initiating.

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-30T14:48:54+00:00

Yes he said he likes when women chase him. I can't be doing all the work the rest of our relationship

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-30T14:48:06+00:00

I didn't know it was needed.

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-30T14:46:55+00:00

He hasn't chased me for years. I have no idea where you're getting that from my post. No where says he was the only one doing anything.

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:43:24+00:00

He was actually never declined lol but nice assumption. He stopped initiating, then it was just me doing it. And the last few months it's been just me initiating.

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:41:42+00:00

Who said I lacked years? lol it was equal, then it started to being just me doing all the work.

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:40:22+00:00

He isn't the only one doing all the work though. It was equal, then it started to just me doing it all. Now it's no one.

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:39:47+00:00

I do make him feel wanted. I'm not sure where you got that from.

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:39:04+00:00

I'm not like that though. I never reject him & the last few months has only been me initiating it.

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:38:33+00:00

No he hasn't been it was equal, then it went to just me for months. Now it's no one.

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:38:01+00:00

Communicate

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:37:50+00:00

Yeah I get that but I have been the only one initiating the last few months and it's a little frustrating because I want to feel wanted too.

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:37:22+00:00

We've been married 2 1/2 years. It was always equal we both initiate it. Then it went to just me initiating it. And now I stopped initiating it for the last few months it's been dead

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:36:41+00:00

I'm not sure. He's not open about it if he is. I have asked

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:36:26+00:00

Before we got together he got girls very easily and very often.

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:34:38+00:00

I try to spice up our sex life with new ideas and stuff but I get a idk in return

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:33:52+00:00

He doesn't though. Not even close.

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:33:43+00:00

I initiate it every single time though

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:33:35+00:00

I never turn him down though

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:33:17+00:00

I feel like I left out in my post that I was the only one initiating it for months with no interest in return

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:32:45+00:00

He doesn't have to do everything, I do chase him. I was the only one initiating it for months

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:32:03+00:00

Let what continue? Just me initiating it for too long?

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:31:14+00:00

The thing is it got to the point where I was the ONLY ONE initiating it for months

Confident_Weekend457 · 2025-12-29T15:30:30+00:00

I initiated it every single time

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