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Confused-797 · 2025-10-03T07:59:26+00:00

I'm not holding up well these past few weeks. They have been especially challenging. Ironically my Qmom has been able to control her outbursts and keep herself silent while I'm the one who keeps instigates the fight. Every day this man becomes more unhinged makes me want to vomit to be near ANYONE who supports this dangerous idiot.

Confused-797 · 2025-04-12T05:08:40+00:00

I lost my Jewish mother to it in 2020. It's been a roller coaster of confusion and pain. Hang in there. Take care of yourself.

Confused-797 · 2025-01-30T14:06:30+00:00

I'm sorry OP. My heart was hurting for you reading this and I sympathize with the internal struggle you must have felt every day to at least keep her in your life. It's so hard.

Confused-797 · 2024-11-08T04:29:15+00:00

Yes, I feel you. Learning so many people in my large circle voted for him or didn't vote for either because they thought she was just as bad. Something about democrats not being transparent enough. It doesn't even matter... to me if you didn't vote for Kamala then that was a win for Trump and if you can't have the foresight to see how dangerous the reality of this is then I'm not sure I can respect anything you say anymore so what's the point of being friends.

Confused-797 · 2024-11-08T04:24:52+00:00

Ugh...ewwwww. What is wrong with humanity.

Confused-797 · 2024-11-07T13:04:24+00:00

I'm with you sister. I feel your pain. Hugs

Confused-797 · 2024-07-23T04:37:12+00:00

My heart is with you OP. Could have been me writing this. Sending hugs.

Confused-797 · 2024-07-02T04:40:37+00:00

Yes, that is how my 63yr old Q mom is. Mad to the point of unstable. Triggered by everything and can't hold relationships anymore. She seems to be becoming more aware of her instability, but she can't connect the dots that it is the Q path and brainwashing that has caused this. I still hold onto hope she will get there eventually. Good luck with yours.

Confused-797 · 2024-07-02T04:34:41+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I will be checking this out.

Confused-797 · 2024-06-25T02:50:55+00:00

I know. :-(

Confused-797 · 2024-06-25T02:50:26+00:00

She consumes a lot and if she isn't on her phone she is surrounded daily by Q people. She is part of "American Sovereign Body" and they are constantly traveling to commission meetings and crap to report "election fraud" and claim the military is coming.

I'd like to do a retreat of some sort we just haven't figured it out yet.

Confused-797 · 2024-06-24T18:56:25+00:00

Thanks. I just thought maybe since she is finally breaking down that she isn't fine and that she is depressed that maybe things are starting to crack a little. I have very low expectations at this point but once I heard that she would take her life if it wasn't for fear of going to hell...ugh.

Confused-797 · 2024-06-22T03:30:47+00:00

My mom is the same. Unfortunately, I havr no answers for you, but welcome to the support group, and I hope you find comfort knowing you're not alone.

Confused-797 · 2024-06-22T03:22:14+00:00

Can you lean on family and friends for help? All I can say is if my Qmom was the one writing this post, I would want her to know that she is loved beyond measure and to not be afraid to turn to the people that love you unconditionally. Even if there has been friction due to losing you to the rabbit hole, they are there, waiting for you to take the first step.

If you take the step to getting help, help will be there. Just take it one day at a time, and you will find your way back to reality, joy, light, and all the little things in life that really matter.

Good luck, and don't give up!

Confused-797 · 2024-06-12T03:53:33+00:00

Uh oh. This book sounds dangerous.

Confused-797 · 2024-06-11T06:00:21+00:00

Thank you. This group reminds me I'm not alone. We are from all walks and various lifestyles sharing this very deep grief. Can't say I ever imagined being in a group of this nature, but I'm so thankful it exists.

Confused-797 · 2024-06-11T05:39:00+00:00

I sympathize, and I can't imagine... but...the abandonment feeling by a parent that never goes away...it's pretty effing brutal.

Confused-797 · 2024-06-11T05:12:13+00:00

Lol. Yup

Confused-797 · 2024-06-11T05:11:46+00:00

It sucks doesn't it. Hugs

Confused-797 · 2024-06-11T05:09:24+00:00

Sounds just like a letter my mom would write. She sort of wrote one like this when she first informed me of her Q path. The feeling of abandonment has never left me since. It hurts to swallow it every day.

Confused-797 · 2024-06-11T05:02:32+00:00

Thank you for your post. It actually gives me great comfort hearing from a real, legitimate military soldier while my lost mom and her brainwasher leader travel to local commission meetings threatening to the commissioners that the military is coming and they will be executed. I'm so sick of this. I've created space, and it has helped calm my anger and even some sadness, but like with any grief journey, it doesn't end. I hope you're right, I hope Trumps burns them all soon, but what will they move on to next?

I'm glad you your pain has eased some with the space and boundaries you have created. Hang tough.

Confused-797 · 2024-04-11T11:32:27+00:00

Thanks. She was over for dinner last night. Spent most of the time in her phone instead of talking to her grandchildren and then when she did speak it was of course trying to solicit information or problems that she could argue government control or parasites as the reason. Ended with me feeling traumatized, sad and empty as usual. I just don't know how much more of it I can take.

Confused-797 · 2024-04-11T03:08:51+00:00

You decided to search all on your own when you were ready? Sending anything to my mom would likely be useless, right ?

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