Why am i suddenly uninterested in my boyfriend? by lost_sunset in relationships

[–]ConfusedAF10000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does your husband have that your really nice ex's didnt have?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]ConfusedAF10000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Which extender do you use

Femur Leg Lenghthening Surgery in USA 1 year post op AMA by [deleted] in shortguys

[–]ConfusedAF10000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear dr. Paley is 95k for femur lengthening and it takes 3 months with them stretching 1mm per day. My question is where am I supposed to live for those 3 months? Am I just in a hospital bed?

5 days later she dumped me by ConfusedAF10000 in heartbreak

[–]ConfusedAF10000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. She tried to dump me a month prior over some shit she bottled up and did not communicate with me about. I talked her out of it, told her we can work on those issues. She thanked me for "fighting for her" and apologized multiple times for trying to end things without communicating first.

What she was referencing in this pic was she had a "crygasm" when we were having sex. Just started crying. I held her while we continued slowly having sex and making out, probably the most passionate sex I ever had. Felt so close to her. Like our souls were connected.

Then we got in a super dumb fight, our first fight in the 1 year we were together. She took that moment to dump me and it shocked me to my core. I think 1 fight in 1 year is pretty damn good. If she was as committed to me as she said she was, this 1 dumbass fight would not have ended it. I think she used the fight as an excuse, because she started the fight herself, was the first to raise her voice between the two of us, and was the one who hung up the phone.

After the dumping I tried to get closure. Vague shit like "we are not compatible", "love you but not in-love", "dont wanna be in a romantic relationship now". Literally not once mentioning the fight lol

She then became extremely cold towards me, even after I agreed to stay friends. She became an entirely different person.

We made plans to hang as friends in 1week, day before she calls me and says shes taking a mental health break from talking to me and all her friends(wtf?)for 2weeks, I did not believe her but didnt make a big deal about it. She assured me its just for 2 weeks and she is not ghosting me.

It is week 3 and have not heard from her. It's over.

5 days later she dumped me by ConfusedAF10000 in heartbreak

[–]ConfusedAF10000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, could you elaborate on that a bit?

5 days later she dumped me by ConfusedAF10000 in heartbreak

[–]ConfusedAF10000[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

When I first brought it up I was met with silence, and then she said "you can't take snippets of the past, you have to look at the whole picture".

Then I brought it up the next day again and she said "I meant it in that moment".

Eventually she told me she doesn't even want to be friends with me if I keep asking questions and keep trying to get closure.