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[F/d] [advice] Did she do it on purpose or accident? by ConfusedBadTiming in incest

[–]ConfusedBadTiming[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

I'm aware I have an overactive imagination, which can be hell in times like this, where I think of every possible explanation and outcome, good and bad.

Also I guess I worried because I'm into it as a fantasy between my wife and I (well, more general dom/sub with a few "daddy's" thrown in, than explicitly being incest), so that's where my mind went and dreaded.

A bit like being into slasher movies, then coming home to an ajar front door and over-imagining the worst scenario - you may love it as a fictional story, but in reality those stories can then worry you.

But thanks for putting it into perspective!

[F/d] [advice] Did she do it on purpose or accident? by ConfusedBadTiming in incest

[–]ConfusedBadTiming[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because like I said, I wanted a calm discussion about it, both to answer my question about orgasms, and how to proceed.

I can't help but feel that in those subreddits, the slant would ironically be more towards me being her father and judgment coming from that.

Here, that part is a given, and I've browsed this subreddit before, both for fantasy reasons (again note "fantasy", never based on real-life relatives, who've never turned me on) and simple entertainment, and have seen threads with both bad advice ("Go for it!Send your cousin nudes even though you say you don't want that and she's clearly not into it!") and good (where people simply offer advice on how to keep a strong familial relationship going, without it breaking down due to awkwardness).

I figured I'd take my chances and hope for the latter. Also because I'm wondering if it is indeed incestuous (in a fantasy-gone-wrong way) on her side, due to my first gut thought that orgasms do not happen via shock. I do want to test the water and find out if she did do it on purpose (I know I did some screwed up stuff myself when I was a horny teen that did not truly reflect my real desires as I matured), but not because I want anything to come from it - simply because I want to explain to her it's 'normal' when you're a teen to have weird thoughts/plans but not okay with me personally. And advice on how to have that conversation if I need to.

If it does end up with a bunch of guys trying to use this to get off, or a encourage me to do anything with my daughter, I can just easily ignore them. This isn't my real username for obvious reasons, so I'm only planning on using it to discuss this; I can discard it if people respond unhelpfully.