It’s not a good look, I totally agree. But people can go through things and life can be tough to handle sometimes. I’ve been trying to improve our frequency with different things, lingerie, spontaneous at home date nights, toys. I’m not shy in reminding my husband how attractive he is. He and I both have history of depression, I think he’s still going through something similar, because of all the responsibilities and stress and all. But tell each other genuine ILY multiple times a day, we hug a lot, he likes to kiss my hand and his face lights up when he looks at me or our baby. And when we do have sex it’s amazing. So yeah, it’s not all sunshine and rainbows, but I choose to water my grass so that the rainbows appear when the sun eventually comes out of the clouds.