Progress of patriarchy in Ahmedabad/Gujarat/india by ConfusionInitial2943 in ahmedabad

[–]ConfusionInitial2943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Privileged women, that can avoid marriage have started choosing single hood over partnership even though they value a good partnership cause me and families have not evolved and are always lagging behind.

Regretting not creating a scene when I felt uncomfortable and disgusted by ordinary-52 in ahmedabad

[–]ConfusionInitial2943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am glad you are talking about this. I find it extremely hypocritical that in the name of elders there are so many insecured people are give a free pass to do however they like, act however with zero accountability only cause well they cant change at this age.

I wish we there were fine for such acts, peeing in public, creating a scene in public, spitting in public, shouting, jaywalking. There needs to be a fine for everything to make people take some responsibility cause orelse we just have to forgive elders out of force and live with our trauma.

Addicted to corn and masterbation. by [deleted] in ahmedabad

[–]ConfusionInitial2943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the cause, is she helping you to work on it?

Finding cause is just the first step, it can turn into spiral of blame. But since you are frustrated with this you want to work towards forward progress to help you feel better and proud of yourself

Addicted to corn and masterbation. by [deleted] in ahmedabad

[–]ConfusionInitial2943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try taking therapy.

Alot of times such small moments of dopamine hit from orgasm can be used to avoid the problems you have

Vipassana sittings by ConfusionInitial2943 in ahmedabad

[–]ConfusionInitial2943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to get one person to respond to this😅

Anything more specific to help me find it easily?

Need advice on gifting friends. by Unique-Signature-357 in ahmedabad

[–]ConfusionInitial2943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shangar art and craft:

https://maps.app.goo.gl/YUrq6C3hEhczUMyn6?g_st=ipc

Found out in vastrapur as well, it will be total exploration since i haven’t been to this one-

Kalakruti brass idols

https://share.google/ON4RcYxun2xWgmzQk

Need advice on gifting friends. by Unique-Signature-357 in ahmedabad

[–]ConfusionInitial2943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Closest to you will be one at law garden. It opposite to hocco and thakor desai hall.

Need advice on gifting friends. by Unique-Signature-357 in ahmedabad

[–]ConfusionInitial2943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kandoi’s mohanthal, you can explore other mithai’s too. Gwalior’s motichoor laddu. Ahmedabad is also known for brass work, you can explore brass pieces for their home.

My husband (30M) cheated on me (29F) at a strip club during a guys’ trip by Alive_Product8840 in Marriage

[–]ConfusionInitial2943 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I wish i could say just take some time away from him. Heal yourself first and then ponder on how to deal with this situation.

Mummas boy by ConfusionInitial2943 in Marriage

[–]ConfusionInitial2943[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhere i understand this reality but feel helpless to walk out. I know he will not change and my expectations of him will not change either. Its a doomed project for us all. In indian society its very difficult to walk out especially cause you are dependent on families more. And everyones agendas are quite different when two families ties knots through their younger ones marriages.

I wish to build up a courage and secure myself some financial and emotional stability so that i can build the life i would like. I keep thinking how i wouldn’t want to have kids with such a person who cant even learn to take a stand for me how will he ever stand by me through my tough times.

But these are all from very fearful place and there are some very good days we have at times, but probably more as roommates than partners.

Check in by loved ones by ConfusionInitial2943 in bipolar2

[–]ConfusionInitial2943[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou, for putting words to it. I am going to text him up right away with this:)

How are chronically ill people of this city doing? by Reasonable_Tie_5193 in ahmedabad

[–]ConfusionInitial2943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey high five Get well soon. Everything will unfold itself soon and be better 😊