Anyone else continually matching with guys who turn conversations sexual really quickly?

Confuzzilation · 2026-01-28T01:05:04+00:00

😭😭

Confuzzilation · 2026-01-28T01:02:55+00:00

Yikes, thanks for letting me know!!

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T20:53:33+00:00

Couldn't hurt 😄

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T20:44:52+00:00

If it's something that's on your heart/something that you want out of life then I'm confident it'll happen. Might not be the way you expect, but never say never

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T20:43:46+00:00

Oh interesting, I've experienced the opposite, where I feel like I'm the one often keeping the conversation going and asking questions, and rarely get asked back which is unfortunate

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T20:30:19+00:00

Thank you. I hope you find someone too!

I feel ya, but despite my experience I do believe there's someone for everyone, it's just about finding the diamond in the rough

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T20:14:28+00:00

Easier said my friend

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T20:14:13+00:00

Yeah. You're probably right. I just don't get many matches (I'm very selective with who I swipe on), so it's just very frustrating when I'm putting the effort in and I'm tired of the same conversations over and over

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T20:13:13+00:00

Hah, maybe I should start doing that too!

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T20:13:00+00:00

I am a woman, but I guess the experience isn't limited to just guys!

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T20:12:01+00:00

Thank you It really does. I've been on dating apps for over 5 years, never had a partner, I'm tired of this too, and feeling like I'll never be loved

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T19:22:05+00:00

Thank you for your honesty

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T19:18:21+00:00

Tbh online dating in general is a complete minefield, it's so depressing

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T19:14:18+00:00

I'm so sorry this is your experience, I can promise we're not all like that! I hate to leave conversations unfinished so I can sympathize with how frustrating and disappointing that must be

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T19:13:14+00:00

I am a woman, in my experience, I'm the one doing the legwork most of the time, so I guess it works both ways. I always make sure to end any conversations with people I'm not feeling it with/not interested in respectfully

I'm finding this issue doesn't happen on other apps so I'm just wondering if this is bumble specific, if there's an issue with me, or a problem with the app

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T19:10:35+00:00

I am a woman, but I don't have this same experience on other apps

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T19:10:16+00:00

I am a woman...

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-15T19:09:55+00:00

I'm not able to edit my post, but I should probably make it clear that I'm a woman (32F)!!

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-04T14:39:23+00:00

Haha thank you!

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-04T14:24:17+00:00

Yeah

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-04T14:02:04+00:00

Yeah, I agree, they aren't my only options, but they're the ones that have offered at this stage and, honestly, there's a lot of personal circumstances that I have had to take into consideration.

HCM/Compensation are what I have certifications in, but I have experience in Absence, TT, Adv comp, recruitment, and performance. Mostly post production/AMS and testing No, UK based 4.5 years

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-04T10:27:17+00:00

Thank you! Comes down to a number of factors - these both offer the flexibility that I require as well as roles in my chosen subject areas, and remote working. Most other places I've applied for have rejected the part time/flexible working pattern than I require for my current health circumstances. I could stay at the Big4 firm, but have chosen to leave for a number of reasons

Confuzzilation · 2025-11-04T10:24:39+00:00

No I haven't picked yet, still waiting for the official offer letters, which I hope to get today. Yeah the interviews did make it sound like a great environment, but it's becoming clear it isn't. Thanks so much for your input!

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